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Hi long time no post, its been 2 years since the last time me and my ex have been trully dating, so in total i have known her for 5 years. I guess some things will never change no matter how much we hope they do. The girl i was dating ended up coming back to me but then she just decided to date other people at the same time. I accepted this but will always regret it. She finnally said the words i think all people hate to here when someone breaks up with you. "I love you, but as a friend". These words are probably the most painful you will ever hear, because i still love this girl(or now should i say woman). And whats worse she still wants to be friends. Come on is it bad enough i have to endure the pain of loss without being reminded everyday of it when she drops by, or even worse when she brings her new BF over. I guess what made this worse is the promise she broke when she did this, she ended up telling me that we are no longer together the day she moved away for 6 months. The promise we made was that if we ever were going to break up at least make the last week or so a happy one so that neither of us ended up hating the other (we had a few issues in the past were we both got real mad at each other). But instead of spending our last two weeks together as a couple, and enjoying the time we had together, she decided it was better to play on the computer, hang out with her friends, and party. Ok i rambled on enough, i just needed to get this off my chest. I still love her but i dont think it will ever be what it once was. Sure i did end up being better than alot of her choices but it seems i will always come out in second place. I just cant wait till the day i can hear a love song on the radio without tears coming to my eyes.

It seams that I just cant find anyone my age, my first GF is 3-4 years younger than me, and that relationship lasted a while (still sorta is going on), but because of how active she was she kept dating other guys, now she found a guy she is deeply in love with and is slowly leaving me (we decided to leave each other slow and on good terms so we will still be friends), and now one of her friends wants to go out with me, and this girl is about 5 years younger than me, i still said yes because they sorta backed me into a corner and since i am very submissive i gave in and said i would go out with her, then she brings on the news she might be pregnant from an ex. I really dont like this kind of pressure, i lost my job back in may and i have no means of support besides my mom, i am as lonely as all hell and i wouldnt of said yes if wasnt lonely. I will try this new relationship but why do i have such bad luck. btw im 21 my ex soon to be ex is 17 her friend is 16

Two days ago me and my girlfriend broke up, we decided that it would be for the best. Before that I allowed her to see other men because she wanted to know whats out there and see if I was truly the one for her. We would of stayed together but the boy she was going for said she had to tell her parents that we broke up before going out with her. So that night we officially broke up. Now yesterday she was trying to get him to goto the dance with her and it turns out he doesnt want to go with her or even go out with her, instead he was trying to get his brother to go out with her instead. After a long argument she agreed. And if he asked her she said she would go out with his brother. Now she told me as soon as she finds out weither or not she really likes or not she will decide weither or not to go back out with me. If she likes me more she will go back to me, if she doesnt well she wont. I promised her that if she felt like she made a mistake that she could always come back to me. She sounds like she will come back to me but i still feel really hurt that i cant be with her. I talk to her everyday because she still wants to be friends but it almost always brings me to tears every time i see a picture of her or talk to her. And what hurts the most is when i dont hear that "I love you" after saying goodbye and usually after we hang up i start crying. I expect this to last only 2 weeks before she will make her decision. But i dont know if i can wait 2 weeks. i miss her so much and it hurts so bad, what should i do, i know that i should give her time and i know she just wants to be friends during this time but i dont know if i can because it hurts so much everytime i talk to her. I miss her so much, and i loved her more than the world itself. Anyone have any advice for me. Thanks