Thankyou to those who replyed to my post. I have an update, and a new set of emotions. He called me yesterday after breaking up with me last Wed. He told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and missed me so much, and that he felt guilty for hurting me and for making a mistake breaking up with me.
I said my part, apologizing for pushing he and our relationship faster than it was developing...I was pushing him to move in with me, but yesterday he told me it made him feel cornered. I told him that I understand now I should have let him come to me when he was ready. Anyways, he said he wants to see me and talk in person so we decided on tomorrow(Monday) When I asked him if we could have another chance he said we'll talk about it in person on Monday.
Firstly, I dont know how to feel...I'm so happy he called and that I got a chance to let him know I shouldnt have pushed etc and understand it should have been when he was ready too, BUT, I dont know how tomorrow will unravel. My mom told me I should be happy he came back within a few days and I'm stupid to worry it wont turn out well.
Why would he have called and said those things and asked to see me so we can talk? I'm just so scared and I cant get the breakup and the things he said during our breakup out of my head. When he broke up with me he told me he feels something is missing and just doesnt feel he loves me, and that he was wrong thinking I was the woman in his future. Could those things have been said out of anger and feeling so cornered? Cold feet? It WAS him who asked me to move in in the first place, and up until a few weeks ago he seemed like he wanted it too...until I pushed too hard..I dunno.
If we do get back together how can I go back to the way it was remembering those words he said? I'll be going back into a relationship feeling empty..not for him, but because of him. I love him very much and dont want to lose what we have, but I dont know how to go back and trust and feel safe again. What do I do? What should I say to him tomorrow??