Hi everyone,
Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. From day one we were madly in love with each other and the thought of being without each other was horrible!
Everything was going great still (or so i thought) and even 2 days before we broke up, my boyfriend was asking what i would do if he asked to marry me. He had just started a new job, but before he would be officially accepted he had to sit a few exams. I was always supportive, put up with him being horrible to me when he was stressed out and even left him alone when he needed to study. When he got down, i would post him little cards that would boost his confidence and always asked how he got on. The day came when he sat his last exam, the day he finished with me.
He sat his exam at 1pm, i texted him before it wishing him all the luck in the world, then straight after he sat it, he was upset coz he thought he had failed. I reassured him that everything would be fine and that i know he would have done well.
At 4pm though, he called as he usually did and just talked normally. Just like any other normal conversation! It wasnt until we said goodbye and put the phone down that he sent me a number of nasty text messages telling me that i was selfish and nasty and that i thought i was better than him. I wondered what the hell he was talking about and he simply wrote back that i was so selfish that i didnt bother to ask him if he had passed his exam. I didnt have a clue that he had gotten his results back so soon! It usually took a few days with the rest of them. He finished it there and then and said that he didnt want to see me again. He just ignored my texts and calls after that or if he replied it would just be abusive
Why is he treating me like this? This happened 2 months ago and he's still being horrible. He even lies about seeing other people to our mutual friends coz he knows they'll tell me. But when i speak to the girls they say its not true. I dont understand what ive done to deserve this. He wanted to marry me only 2 days before Sorry this is so long!!
