hi, new here. alot of you people have some good advise, i was wondering if any of you had some advise for my situation.
my friend invited me to the race track last weekend with some of his friends. and this girl came with one of his friends. i was instantly attracted to her. and she seemed to keep looking at me when i finally caught her eye. we talked a bit, and then she came and sat next to me. all the betting was in small quantites, like $2 or $4 each time. so we werent dealing in alot of money here. it was just for fun. well, i won the race we were watching right when she sat down next to me. we were excited. then she said lets go see how much you won. i got $55!! anyways, from then on we were next to each other all night. everytime i sat down, she came and sat down next to me. she came with me to place a few bets, and to get advise on what horse to bet on next.
well, it was all going well for me. and we were getting close. she kept doing the "accidental" touching of my hands and arms and stuff. and i was doing the same with her, obviously.
well, then i asked for her number. and she told me that she wasn't really looking for anything right now. i was confused, but took it gracefully. i just said thats ok, maybe i could just call you and we could kick it sometime. so she smiled and gave me her number.
well, i talked to my friend the next day. he hadnt seen her in about 2 years, but is very good friends with the person she came to the track with. and he said that she just broke up with her boyfriend like 2 days before.
so now i dont know what to do. she was totally flirting with me, but then she was hesitant to give me her number. and now i find out she just broke up with her boyfriend. i dont want to be some annoying guy, or just the rebound thing.
so what do i do? i tried to call her a bit ago, but got her voicemail. i know that doesn't mean anything yet. but at least i know its a good number! should i leave a voicemail and give her the option to call me back? or what should i do? i dont know if voicemail is appropriate. i didnt want to leave a message saying anything.
please help!!