Okay I don't know whats wrong with me!
I've known this girl for 2 - 2.5 years. I've liked her from day one, but never had the guts to say anything. Well Friday I was determined to say something....alas I didn't cause she has a boyfriend
Firstly I'm 25 and never dated before and although it seems cliche I have never felt this way about anyone ever! I can never get her out of my mind, I've lost heaps of sleep over and this has gone on since I've known her.
Anyway....Friday after we got together for lunch i felt so weird, but not the usual way I feel when I essentially get regected. I wanted to break something, I wanted to cry but could get more than a drop or two out. I hardly slept all night. Saturday morning I did cry, & I want to cry now sunday. I've never been like this over a girl. I have a constant frog in my throwt, and I fell sick every now and then. I just can't get her out of my mind, I try but ineviteable I'm back on her.
I've never had such strong emotions or feelings for someone. I just don't understand. Early last year I decided I should give up on her cause I didn't have the guts, so I stopped calling her. I wouldn't say I got over her but I was on my way to get over her. But out of the blue she rings me, & she sparked my interest again. Early this year I decided I needed to become more confident with women & try and talk to them more. I also tried to get over her again by looking at other chicks and seeing if I"m interested in any and perhaps pursuing. That was going really well talk wise, but ever women I looked at I couldn't see myself with. I don't know what It si...I've never really been easily attracted to women but it seems different this time. I can't see myself with anyone else except her!!!!!!!.
Most of my life could could honestly say that I have zero passion for anything. The first time i am passionate about something and the first time it felt right it all goes to hell. I don't understand why I'm feeling like this. This isn't just alittle disappontment over 'some' girl.
I'm scared...I was scared when I felt so strongly about her and I'm scared of losing her!!. And I'm scared that I'll never feel this way again. There has to be something wrong with me. I've wandered around the house all day doing nothing bored out of my brain, cranky , upset & lonely! I wanted to just run away....and die.
I'm so sick of not having a girl friend, I'm so sick of being alone. I just don't know how much longer I can put up with all this crap. I'm 25 never dated & in love with someone who doesn't know I exist. I don't want to wake up in 5 - 10 years down the track and still be single. So everyone has suggested I get out and just mingle. I've been doing that and I can't see myself with anyone except this girl. Shes sooo different to anything I've been attractected to........and she has made me feel things I've never thought was possible. But its' a waste..i just don't know what to do. I can easily see myself a week from now feeling the same, and 10 years down the track still being single. I do know one thing I will never forget this girl.
I suppose one of my problems is i've never been really good with my emotions & expressing how I fell. So I guess I'm really struggling to handle such extreem feelings.
How the hell do i get over this girl..& should I give up?