Misery1

wow.. that made me feel 100% better thanks a lot

Alright, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 5 months or so, and we're only 15, and I know we're both young, but our relationship is very mature, more clearly, we are not that into public affection, like we don't kiss in front of people.. at all. im not sure if she's just not comfortable with it.. or what, I wouldn't mind too, but I don't know what it is. I just want to have a good relationship with her, meaning, being comfortable at her house, with her whole family, and vice versa. We hang out all the time, and do fun things, this weekend we might be going to play lazer tag.. her idea. Anyways, I find myself thinking about her 24/7 and I know that isn;t anything bad, but I dont; know if she is doing the same.. she came over last weekend with another couple, and we had fun.. we didn;'t make out or anything, and I know relationships arent about that.. we do other things.. cuddle and stuff, I feel that we're more mature than other couples who think relationships should be based around holding hands and such.. if you get me. Like she surprises me with things sometimes.. like yesterday she painted me a picture of my name with a heart around it, and just gave it to me.. it made my day, just to know she took the time.. for me. I just want to know if this sounds good.. and if you were a girl.. or if you are.. what I can do to keep her, and so she doesnt get bored and leave.. or just become unattracted to me.. I know once we get passed the hard months.. that it gets easier, and I dont need to worry as much anymore, but just what are some things I can do.. and am I doing it right, and does she seem into me? and what are some things I can do to find out if she is.. I also want to let her know what she means to me. but we dont really talk about that.. we are more the laid back, type. So if I did let her know, id want to do it in the style we are used to. Thats pretty much it.. I just want things to work out.. I know it's a lot, but please reply and tell me how this sounds.. and give me your opinion on ANYTHING I can do.. im just curious, thanks a lot !

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 months or so, but i've known her for about 3 years, and we've been 'together' for about 5-6 months. I just feel sometimes, that I am doing 110% in the relationship all the time, I make the plans, and the times, and I don't mind the actual work, I care for her so much, I don't even think about it, but it's the whole meaning behind it. Why am I working so hard? you know.. I read that the girl should work too, and I don't want to suddenly stop doing what i'm doing.. and make her question why i'm not being as .. leaderish as before, because if I assume if she wants me as bad as I want her, she'll start making plans, and times to see me.. but what if she takes time to think, and thinks that if I won't make the plans, im boring, and maybe she will lose attractivness to me, but she always does things for me, and shows that she cares.. she's not even a bad person, and does make a lot of the plans.. but sometimes I just want to know she likes me as much as I like her.. im just ramblin on but I need to get this out.. I just want to know that I am appreciated as much as she is by me. How can I tell? what can I do? Anything.. it's a healthy relationship and we see each other all the time, I just don't want her to feel that if I don't make the plans... there won't be any.. how can I make it so that I feel we're both putting as much into this relationship. Please help.. Thanks.

Me and my girlfriend, have been going out for about 4 months, or so.. and I don't know if I am in love with her or not, because this is the first time i've had this feeling. It's like.. I would cancel all my plans just to sit up and talk with her, I am not whipped, I know that much, I am just very flexible with her. In a good way. I never go through a day without thinking about her, and all I want is a good relationship with her, as long as possible, I am prepared to make sacrifices too. I guess what I am saying is, I want to know if this is love, and I kind of want to know if she feels how I feel. And how would I be able to tell if she does. We don't really talk about things like this to each other, unless we're on topic, we're just kind of casual, not much for public affection, we have our times, she always paints me things in Art class too, like my name in a heart, for example, so I know she's thinking about me, I just want to know if this is good, and am I doing okay? And any advice for anything, hopefully you understand.. Thanks!

i've been seeing this girl for about 3 months or so, and things are going wicked, and for the first month or so, we kissed (made out) and other things, but now, we havent kissed in a while, but we still fool around, such as wrestle, and cuddle and stuff, and I want to kiss her again, to show her that it's still the same guy as before, but I am just waiting for the right moment, but I don't know what kind of situation is right, to give a girl a kiss, and what's not. I just want things to work out between us.

thanks a lot guys, I shall give it a shot

Okay, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months, and everything is going great, but I am just sort of confused, because I haven't been in many serious relationships, but I know this one will last for a long time if I keep at it, but I just want to know if she likes me as much as I like her. We started going out because I knew that she liked me a lot, so I asked her out, and she comes over here a lot, and my family loves her, same with her family. We're really close, and we do many things together, such as go to plays, and movies, or just stay home and hang out. But we haven't kissed (or made out) in about a month, and I know relationships are based on that, but I just want to know what it is, I know she wants to, we've done things before, and she just got over this cold. But now things are back to normal and I am going on a trip soon, for a week, and I just want to know if this relationship sounds strong? We're very comfortable together, and I really likeher.