Your_Own_Disaster

i know that this isnt really an online dating site, but in terms of profile sites, it kicks ar$e link removed

this i dont understand, what do you mean exactly?? ~~~~~~~~~~ and 'Fallen' if your attracted to him, just talk to him, u might like him, and if u dont like him in that way, hes always there as a friend. hope that helped, probobly not thought!!

ok, thanx for your advice, well i just told her i wasnt going to a gig thats on 2moro, which she is goin 2, but i asked if she wanted 2 do n e thing over the weekend instead and she said yes, no idea what yet, but she said yes, so , erm, woo! lol

ok heres whats happened, my mate told me 2 make a profile on 1 of these online sites, so i did , and ive had tons of adds from ppl on it, and alot from my hometown, some i kno, some i dont got the msn of 1 in particular as she seemed a nice person weve talked on msn for a wile now, and i dunno, shes a year younger than me, and we met online, so i find that kinda weird. just want to know what your opinions on it are. we dont really have a 'relationship' , she knows i kind of like her, and i ko she kind of likes me, she lives about 15 mins walking from my house. should i pursue this as a potential girlfriend, or just a friend. and what would be the best way of meeting her, as ive had a problem with this once, we both went to the same gig last sunday, and i said id come say hi if i saw her, which i didnt. later on msn she said she saw me, but was 2 shy 2 come over! what does this mean? if anything thanx,

ok, well i was 10 mins late to the lesson , most ppl were sat on 1 side of the room so i sat on the other with the 2 ppl i usually sit with, she sat on the other side next 2 some other dude. they seem to get along really well, and she seems more interested in him, so theres my answer i guess. oh well, thats life.... #1 out the window.

aaaaargh i dunno, i just dunno! :S well i got a lesson with #1 in about 30 mins, for about 2 hours, so ill see how things go 'talkin 2 her' style thing.... if she still seems distant and stuff ill probs just give up or something. will reply again when i get bak in probobly ^_^

im not too sure, she seems a bit shy, and ive known her since the start of college, i think that she doesnt like me because she makes no real effort to talk to me outside of the lessons i have with her, and that she hardly talks on msn, or all that much in the lesson, altho no1 really talks that much in the lesson , teacher is as strict as they come, wont let us talk really. i think she does like me because she keeps trying to leave the room at the same time as me so that she can talk to me or something, so i usually go to her locker with her then out of college. and if i take really long leaving the room, like stay in my seat and fiddle around in my bag tryin 2 get my file in *damm bag* she walks slowly, but looks bak at me when she leaves the room. and she always smiles at me if she sees me outside or around the corridoors etc.... so thats why i think she might like me but its the whole not really talking to me alot etc that makes me thing she's not attracted to me and that she only likes me as a friend. altho theres something, dunno what, that just makes me suspect that she likes me, if she didnt and i knew that, i wouldnt have a problem because id know it would be hopeless and get over it, but as i suspect that she does, then i dunno what to do, so confused :S (confused at frustration, frustrated of confusion)

i know this probobly has nothing to do with this topic, but the 'awkward silence' aint a bad thing at times. like at a houseparty 4 example, and heres an example >> was at one last week, only knew 3 ppl there, about 8 or so i didnt kno, and not many of them knew many ppl either, so we were all there sat in the bak room, chatted a bit and it kept going quiet, so i decided to say "yep, heres that whole awkward silence thing again" and some ppl laughed, so i thought fruck it, im gonna talk, and just rambled on about something to do with spongebob square pants being 'god' a few mins later after i run out of things to say the silence is back, then atleast uve tried altho its weird, once the girls left 2 get stuff from the shop , within five minutes every1 was talking and acting like fools. once the girls were back, all but me and 2 other ppl were totally silent again. like i said, nothing to do with this thread really, but it does a bit, i just dont understand why ppl go so quiet to the point of not talking when girls are there, even the girls didnt talk, almost at all, until about 4 or 5 hours later. *thinks hes just talked a load of pinecones* so erm, ill shut up now before i make a bigger 'pinecone' out of myself. heh.

ShySoul thats just it, i get along better with #2 and also have more in common with #2 yet i keep veering towards #1 more!!! :S it just confuses me, alot!

ok 2 things 1 - i have no idea what a berevement is (only 16 here) *gets confused often, most of the time, all of the time, chyeah* 2 - if she is really stressed and stuff then id say thats a fairly good reason for being kinda pissed off and saying the film and stuff was crap just phone her and sk if everything arite or summit, she may lighten up to you a bit if you seem more caring towards her... good luck anyways dude

dude, if she does like you, then she will call you, after the way she acted on that date i wouldnt want to continue getting to know her the whole drinks thing, then the shopping center, then the meeting a friend thing, she was tryin to get away from the date i think. also the whole 'free bus' thing, who would want to turn down a free lift 2 use the lame-ass public transport anyways... evn if it is free, cos so is the lift in the car!!!!!!!!! thats just crazy my advice, forget her, call her, say u had a good time, and that u dont think it will work out, but if u still wanna be friends. does anyone else find it weird how if u get along with someone, and it doesnt work out romantically, that u just forget about the person.... whatever happened to the whole 'friends' scene

i cant really ask both out, as id probobly loose both of them by doing that, as they will more than likley find out!!!! >_

ok, heres the thing.... theres this girl ive liked for a long time, (since the start of college) and ive always thought that she was not attracted to me, so i decided to look elsewhere. i have just found out off a friend that another girl i like, really likes me, alot, and she is in the year below me. i have also just found out that the first girl i mentioned may also like me, but i am not 100% sure about that one. im not sure what to do, do i take a chance with the first girl who i like more on the chance she may like me, or just ask out the second girl who i also like, just not as much. i also dont want to hurt the second girls feelings if she does like me as much as her friend says... another confusing point is, that i get along a bit better with the second girl, but for some reason im attracted to the first girl alot more!!! any help anyone can give me here will be greatly appreciated, thanx.