MetallicAguy

Yeah, like I know I have a good personality, I think it's the clothes. Maybe I should just go out one day and spend $200 bucks lol.

Dude, just in my opinion but these are the weirdest women I've encountered in my life lol, I'd go back to golddiggers anyday if I was in a current relationship with a strictly religious girl. I guess if your dating her and she's cool and all that that's good, though her parents from what you've wrote seem to me as freaks lol, I can't believe she was brainwashed about abortion and disease "horror" stories LOL. In my opinion I think of these women as freaks because obviously how your raised is how you turn out to be, and she is going to be a very strict, dull women because of her parents bulls***. If she can't disobey her parents and get physical and have fun I see no point to date her because girls like this are often very weird when older. (***Most not all)

First off, I agree with Eric's idea and you should do it. The reason why she told you this is because if you translate that phrase into "male talk" (lol) it means "I'm just not feeling any attraction for you yet your too much of a nice guy." You got to be more push/pull, probably something you don't know about yet, but basically this is an easy way to get to her, it confuses her emotions about you and somehow causing at attraction. This may sound confusing but a good example is if you watch Hitch. In the beginning, he's talking about how this guy is married and Hitch thinks it's stupid or something like that. Then this is the push/pull part when he goes over to this girl and askes her for a 2 coronas or something like that he increases the tension between him and her and it works I guess which is surprising since I've never believed a movie to be right lol. So basically play that right and you can ask her out in the future and turn that Maybe into a Yes. .

.Just thinking of it I came to this conclusion; it's because they think they have a resource to lean on.....Golddiggers lol.

LOL. Yeah,...girls can be all into themselves sometimes, like over doing the make-up so they look like w***es. I think #1 It's a status thing. #2. It shows how desperate they are for a guy. I know some girls that like never get any dates that are good looking and they'll go from little clothes to like wearing enough to make sure your not cold in Alaska lol. Maybe it's an insecurity thing and they hate how they look so they'll go buy some clothes, dye their hair hoping they'll look better.

Do women find guys more attractive wearing certain clothes? I wear the shirts I want to usually and I wear almost tight blue jeans that show my legs and *** and I wear white Nikes. I can't get any dates, and I have moderate zits. My behavior around women is fine, I can make them laugh and they'll tell me I'm funny or fun to talk to. What am I doing wrong? It makes no sense. Could it be my status? That's something I've never really excelled in other than I'm inbetween (Inbetween prep and geek). I haven't bought a new "set" of clothes for about 5-10 months, maybe that's the problem; I don't know. But what is with this crap? I mean why does a women judge you on the way you dress? It's not like I'm wearing rags. I bet you could talk to a guy with orange hair, clown shoes and multi-colored pants and T-Shirt and the guy would be completely normal other than the way he picks his clothes lol. And I have like no confidence though, My self-image sucks so much because I've had zits for 8 years. I have guts to talk to women, or ask them out though so I guess that's confidence. Anyone know what my problem is?

Oh yeah, I personally don't like these women because there really weird, I mean they can be fun once they open up to you, but they have all these insecurities and "rules". I hate it.

She needs to get over it. That's like telling a nerdy chick to stop fantasizing over Orlando Bloom LOL. Tell her it's not your problem if your eye-candy to girls of all ages throughout your high school. Tell her that she needs to get over it and it's all in her head because your her first bf. She definitely needs to deal with it. It's her problem lol. It's not your problem she has bad social status that people say "Why'd he choose HER?!?!".

Most girls are superficial. They love their clothes because their all about status. It's pretty hard for me to not come accross a superficial chick since there just about everywhere. They love it because their all into what other people think of them. And of course they want to attract guys with it but that's more of there secondary purpose of clothing I think.

So to sum it up, clothes for women are all about who looks the best, and like you said al7 social status and power.

Seems like she likes both of you because you both fill in her "missing qualities". These women I avoid lol, so the best thing to do is to leave her alone. Or stick with it and deal with a girl that doesn't love you and possibly get cheated on.

Like there un-used fatty muscles. The more you avoid exercising the weaker your muscles become and they go into atrophy which is basically destruction of muscles under my term.

I guess there is, there's got to be with all those hair gels out there. You might as well go to the hair salon (lol) and ask them what hair gel doesn't have alcohol but has a good hold.

LOL that is REALLY unhealthy at your age, the average college student is like 180-220lbs so you should at LEAST be 150. Eat more healthy food eating **** all the time is definitely not going to help your muscles. The only way to make this pain go away is to eat healthier, and exercise daily.

Wait I got it, your muscles are so weak because you never did any work-outs when you were younger and your muscles are all flabby now because you haven't done anything about it. If you did when you were younger you probably skipped a year and your muscles are unstable if you did.

YES, DEFINITELY exercise at your age. You don't want weenie arms at age 20. lol especially when your in college when everyone thinks there hot s***. It has something to do with exercise. So go take a jog drink some water. Lay off the Cheez-It's and old leftover's with mold from 3 weeks ago in your roommates refrigerator lol.

Yeah, what the h*** is this weird vein pulling thing, I get it sometimes when I'm running or w/e and after it feels like blood is oozing out of the vein or maybe that's my endorphins on my brain lol. This might be kind of off topic but might relate but, do you get enough calcium? maybe it's your body's way of communicating to you that your bones are really weak. lol I can't really figure out what this is.

It could be your muscles atrophying if you don't get enough exercise. That's the only thing I can think of....sorry wish I could help more but I have no idea whatsoever this chronic muscle pain is.

Like do you have a certain exercise you doing in the morning or any part of the day that hurts or may stretch or exercise one of these areas or is it completely random. I have something that's just like this in my neck too it feels like I'm pulling a vein lol. What it does is I'll run or walk or sit and turn my head at a moderate or fast speed and it'll feel like I ripped a vein in my neck/head and it'll hurt for 10 seconds. I have no idea what it is.

Does it feel like your muscle is ripping? Does it occur in the same area(s) every time it occurs? Try to label the specifics it's the only way I can figure out what this is.

Tell me what it's like when your walking.

Well I don't think there's really an alternative to alcohol and holding hair up and drying fast in that category. So I guess you have to stick with alcohol.

That is h***a weird. Seems like you need to relax. (This sounds really stupid but I got it out a book and it works). Book: "Try to imagine a calm, light blue ocean in Hawaii, with a slow tide.". Then repeat that 5 times or more if you need to. Could it be your posture? How do you sit? But most likely your just stressing hard. Well when I'm doing my homework I usually listen to some Blues or Stevie Ray Vaughan, that calms me down. The worst thing I can think of though is that you have some kind of muscle disorder or is it a spasm? I'll tell you a story I had somewhat similar to this about 3 years ago. I had this kind of pain after I had been sitting down for a long time in my abdomen. I'd take a deep breath and then 10-13 breaths after I'd have what it seemed to be the end and/or front of my ribcage poke one or both of my lungs and I'd suddenly lose air in my lungs like it was asthma or something. I don't really have asthma or been around smoking or have a parent who smokes. I never knew what the f*** it was. I went to a doctor and even he said he didn't know lol. Anyway I think your just stressing, your in college too so it's probably normal.

Just sit with her it's fine.

It's pretty easy you could just go with the flow, watch how she does it and do the same to her.

It's easy that's how they get the girls; They tease.