I'm having an odd time just now, just starting final year of degree & I was recently devestated when my boyfriend split up with me because he was sexually confused, and thought that because he had gay fantasies he was gay and now realises it wasn't that big a deal and just needed to tell me - he loves me and thinks he's made a big mistake.
I've told him that I won't be going anywhere with him unless he seeks counselling to learn how to express himself and deal with his past, and current issues.
I have no problem with bi-sexuality - I would consider myself to be so myself, but know that when I am commited to a relationship that's who matters, regardless of their sex.
He agrees.
I'm not sure how I can trust his feelings again, not sure what he can give me. I've told him that he has to prove himself to me and tell me what he can give me because I'm fed up of doing all the talking and running.
What's your take on all of this?