Alli2128

I would suggest that you not have an abortion. If you want this baby dont let anyone talk you out of it. I myself have been the mistress of a married man for two years now. We have a 3 month old beautiful daughter together and I wouldn't give her up for the world. Although he is still married and living with his wife, everything is wonderful. She knows about the baby, and is very understanding and loves our child very much. They get her whenever they want, at least one night a week and she treats her as her own child. She's not happy about the affair, but she made the choice to stay with him. I wish the best for you and I hope you make the right decision. A child is a gift from God, so you never would have gotten pregnant unless it was meant to be.

I am in a relationship with a married man, we have been together for a year and a half now. I love him very much and he tells me that he loves me, but I also know that he is not going to leave his wife. I'm five months pregnant with his child and now I am worried about what kind of life my child is going to live. Not to mention, this is going to have an affect on his other two children. This man is my biggest weakness and I know that this relationship is not healthy for either one of us, but I find myself still involved with him. His wife found out about me a few months after we began seeing each other, but she forgave him, and of course she believed our relationship was over. Just recently, she discovered that we are still together and she knows I am pregnant with his child. They separated for only a week and then she took him back, even after he told her that he is in love with me. She confronted me about our situation, and he told her that we stopped seeing each other, and of course she believes him again. Her and I talk twice a week now and she wants us to get acquainted with one another since there is a baby in the picture. She has no problem with him being a father to our baby and she also does not mind him and I being friends. The problem is that we are still sexually involved and I can't seem to bring myself to end our relationship. I feel it would be too much for me to handle while I am pregnant if I were to lose him. I would appreciate any advice from anyone.