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I think it's not a problem seeking out advice from the opposite sex... but I would definitely not ask a friend of my boyfriend's. The reason for this is that if they are really close, they will most probably share whatever you have discussed with your partner... and that's not cool either, especially if you want it all to stay confidential...

It could be possible that he is autistic or something....

It could also be that he's too scared of having people watching him doing stuff like that... it can be quite difficult and daunting for young kids to learn new skills... but he might have felt that he wasn't given enough positive attention or something from the teacher...

I'm not sure... that's just what my first thoughts are..

I am usually the instigator of sex... I would say about 80% of the time, I get rejected...

Luke has always had a low sex drive ever since we first started going out.. whether or not he was like this before with his ex's I have no idea... though if he wasn't, it would explain why they all cheated on him...

Agreed Not neccessarily educated, but motivated academically. I'm in university and whenever I study with a boyfriend, or am in the same room while he studies hard for a test, I just like to watch him study Maybe I'm weird but it really is quite "HOT." It's really cute how hard he's concentrating =)

Geeks, nerds, it's all good... I'm incredibly attracted to intellect...

Isn't marriage about sharing? Sharing problems, sharing money, sharing your life?

I would definitely ask him to help you out here. Don't feel bad about it...

If he doesn't respond well to this, try and put aside money each week, a bit at a time, until you can afford to get a coat and get your hair done.

Best of luck, and I hope things go well for you...

Men are logical. Think of Spock. Whatever it is you want, say it. If you want us to ask you out, say "Ask me out!" and we will. God, I wish I could date a Vulcan girl.

Don't Vulcans only mate once every eight years??

Thanks for your comments guys... we have 'done it' before so it's not like he's shy about it... I think that he's just not that sexual... *sigh* lucky me...

Oooh I love the gunners..

So How are you? Lonely, bored, and sexually frustrated.

 

How would you react if I answered this question with the truth instead of fine?

 

Thanks

I would say "Hear hear!!"

There is something that drew you to her in the first place. What do you admire about her? What are her good qualities? Do they outweigh the bad?

Bump....

Apparently I'm the only one with a nutcase for a bf....

I think that you don't owe her any explanations... do you think you owe it to her? After she started pulling away from you and losing interest?

That's so sad!!

Did you guys have an argument or something? What stopped him from talking to you altogether?

I think you did the right thing... Big hugs to you...

Wow... I love it... so sad though...

Where in Australia are you by the way?

You are only 17.

In order for you to stay healthy, you should NOT NOT NOT starve yourself of food. I did the same to myself when I was your age and it was awful, I was skin and bone.

If you are concerned that you are overweight, eat healthy, regular meals and exercise regularly as well. Please do not put your own health and safety at risk for this, it's not worth it...

I made my boyfriend come off Zoloft a few months after we started going out... the doctor he saw (for the record - absolutely HOPELESS) told him that he just needs to stop taking them... WRONG! He should have been weaned off them gently..

He spent the next six months very moody and crying all the time, that sort of thing... but I'm still very happy he's not on them any more...

I'm glad you are doing well since coming off the anti-depressants!

If that's you in your avatar, you don't look like you even need to use drugs that curb your appetite.

If you want to speed up your metabolism, regularly exercise. Don't trust any of these "miracle" pills. They don't work. The only true thing, is a healthy diet and regular exercise.

Good luck..

This is such a sensitive issue...

But I do see your point... I wasn't really sure what Palative care was before but it doesn't sound too caring to me. I don't think I would wish that on anyone.

Guess it goes to show that everyone should have a good will, and give power of attorney to someone who can prevent this sort of thing from happening to their loved ones..

Love to you and your family during this sad time...

I'm not really sure why I prefer taller guys...

It's easier to snuggle I feel more secure with someone who is larger in proportions, if that makes sense...

In the end you have to do what's right for you.

For instance, what might seem like harmless fun now, might eventuate into something more heavy later on... like, he might think it's ok to cheat further down the track into your relationship...

Sense of humour, eyes, smile, intelligence...

I'm into geeks

Doesn't really sound like something friends would do, but I must say I'm a bit out of the loop..

If you really want this guy, go for it... but don't forget that if your friends are also interested, they might see green and decide they want to steal him from you... it's a risk, but you would know that already if you are aware that they like him too...

Dump him NOW.

If he is that stupid to blatantly disrespect your feelings like that, AND in front of your friends, then he is not worth the trouble.

And I would also ditch your "friend" who fooled around with him as well. Real friends don't do that to each other..

Good luck with it, and stay strong.

I think it's sweet you waited... I had always maintained I was going to do the same and I wish I had now...

Still with the same person, nevertheless...

Not long to go though.. and imagine how explosive the big night will be No pun intended... Oops!

Probably doesn't sound like a big deal, but I find that quite often when I feel want "a piece", I'll start touching my FH (future husband) .... like, smooching him, grabbing his tackle gently or smacking him on the bum! lol...

But he doesn't get what I'm doing! He'll be like "what are you doing woman!" and I literally have to spell it out what I want to do...

Does anyone else have a similar problem?!! :splat:

I doubt whether oral sex would break her hymen.. isn't the hymen on the inside?

If you guys do actually want to have sex I would suggest a private and non threatening environment, for instance, in your bedroom with lots of candles and stuff and music... and I would suggest that any "actions" are initiated by her, ie. having her on top so she can control what's happening....

Sorry, a bit off topic... were you guys waiting until marriage to actually have sex?