Here is the deal - recently starting dating my ex-boyfriend, we have been seeing each other for 2.5 months - when we originally were together, back in 2001, we had this amazing connection, lust, attraction, it was real good!
Fast forward to now - we picked up pretty much at the same spot we left off....great chemistry, just both of us are more mature, evolved, etc - my question, is it right of me to ask him what his intentions are? like what he wants with me? (he has casually mentioned things like talking about kids, careers, etc) So, I wanted to ask what made him want to contact me after 2 years - we have been emailing/catching up for 1 year before us dating again...
Here is the other drawback to making "us" work - I just found out I am moving from the West Coast to Washington DC in the Fall for law school - so, I have feelings for him, and I want to know naturally, what he thinks of me/us? but then a part of me wants to be defensive since I am leaving, and maybe not continue something that needs to end...and I think he may also be putting up a wall, not falling for me again, since he knows I have to move....
I need your advice, do you think it would be a good idea to ask him about his intentions with me? and if he is being guarded about his feelings? or would it be a waste since I have to move....Thanks.