I don't want to take this to family and friends so I'm here. The conflict in my household started with a Subway coupon with an exotic email address email removed written on the back by a female. This coupon was found in my husband's wallet. I asked him about it and he said he found it on the train on his way home and wanted the discount. I told myself it sounded fishy but let it go. Later in the week I needed some cash and there the coupon was again. I took it out and began reading the discount and found that the coupon expired back in February. So I confronted him again and asked why would he be holding on to an expired coupon. He tells me as if he is shocked "Oh no I was going to use it today". I turned and walked out having lots of doubt. Then later that morning he tells me he must of thought that this year was 2003 and next year was 2004. So then I became even more suspicious it was sounding like a bunch of crap to me. So that night I logged on to his email I had to play detective. As soon as his mail box opened I see a response from email removed. The email read "WELL YOU DIDN'T LOOK SO BAD YOUR SELF. I THOUGHT ABOUT OUR PAST AND COULD NOT STOP THINKING ABOUT IT. I HOPE THE WIFE AND KIDS ARE FINE. I ALSO HOPE TO SEE YOU AROUND SOME TIMES WITH OUT THE GANG. MAYBE WE CAN GET TOGETHER SOME TIME AND TALK. MY NUMBER IS ***-***-****, CALL ME SOMETIME IF YOU NEED TO TALK OR JUST TO SAY HELLO." Okay so I search a little further and find out it is a old sex buddy. That night I confront him and he keeps denying that he knows her. Then after an intense questioning he admits that he knows her and that they and 2 other guys went to a restuarant together to hang out. I happen to remember that night and he didn't say anything about her being there it was suppose to be a guys night out. We have been married 6 years and we promised each other not to keep contact with people we've had intimate relationships with because it can cause problems. I reminded him of that and he said he didn't care how I felt. The next day he apologized and said nothing is going on between them and that he doesn't want anything to happen between them. What do you think? Am I jealous? Is he up to something? Your opinion is greatly appreciated.
