JC

This girl has really got to me. She is all I think about. Well here is the story. I have known her for about a year now. We would flirt most of the time at the beginning, and she knew I liked her. She then began to send mixed messages to me. I wasn't really sure what was happening. So one day a friend of mine went to talk to her about me. She told him basically she thaught I was cute. Then I called her that night to talk about what he had told me. I asked her about it and she said that she didn't tell him that, she had told me she didn't even talk to him that day. I know that wasn't true because I saw when he went to her to talk about me cause I told him to figure out for me what was happening. Well back to when I called her I confessed to her I had feelings for and also I would to take her out. All she told me was she didn't know. Then a little while after that she began to get real weird with me. She would try to act like she didn't see me when we pasted each other. Then the only time we would talk if I went to her. But I seen her looking at me when she thinks I don't notice. Now when I am around her there is an awkardnes between us. Can someone please give some ideas on how to fix this cause I still care about her, but now I don't see her that often.

See I have known this girl since the beginning of the school year. I had her in one of my classes. At first we didn't talk because we didin't know each other. As time passed we got to know each other better and you could say we flilted with each other. See she is my cousins girlfriend's best friend. Once we all went to the movies there was three guys and three girls, but we didn't who was going with who. So we asked the girls and she asked my cousin if i liked her. My cousin told her he didn't know. then when the next semister started i didn't have in any of classes. But by now she knew I liked her. I sent her rose for valentines' day. I heard she was making a card, but she gave up on it because she didn't know what to put on it. And when she was asked if she would out with me she said she doesn't know. But then she started acting different with me. She would walk down the hall she will look at me but once I noticed and i turned my head to look her at she would turn around and just look forward. Also when she is talking to her friends she would constantly look to see if i was looking at her. It seems like to me she shy cause she acts like she is trying to ignore me, but when I call her over to talk to me she starts to smile and sometimes turns red. Then my friend went to talk to her about that I thought she was pretty and I wanted to take her out. She told my friend she thinks I'm cute, but she is not allowed to have a boyfriend. I know this sounds like bs. So I call her to see whats up. I ask her if my friend talked to her about I want to take her out, But she say he didn't. And I know he talked to her cause I overheard and also my friend told me he did. But she still said she didn't talk to him. So I told her straight up that I think she is pretty and I want take her out. I asked her what she thought about that. All she told is I don't know. Then I asked her about her not being able to have a boyfriend. She told me she can't, but my cousin's girl said she was able to. I told her and she said that she can, but her dad rather she not. Then my cousins's girl (remember her best friend) said to my cousin she lied to me. Then my cousins tells me that she is suppose to talk to me about that. I really don't know what going on cause some days she seems she likes me then other days she is different. I do know is that I like her alot and can someone please give me some advice on what I should do or if they think they know what seems to be going on. thank you

thanks everyone for advice. But I am more confused now. She is trying to hook me up with her friend now. I just don't what is going on. I am thinking of just asking her how she feels toward me do yall believe thats the right thing to do. If not can u please tell me what I should do.

I have been talking to this girl for a while. Right u could say we are friends. We are talking alot on the phone and she always inviting to go somewhere with her. I even met her parents and her brothers. But she say things I don't understand. Like she asked how old i thought she looked i misheard and told her that she good. She then got all happy. But most of the time we are talking she some how brings up that we are just friends. We could be totally off that topic and she would bring it up. She also asked me what girls I liked at school. I told her a name and she tought I said hers she got all happy, but when I said another name she got real quiet. She is always asking me questions of what I considered a friend. She all so asked me why we couldn't be more than friends. I didn't answer that question she just got mad at me. Then I ask her why she asked me those questions she said she didn't remember. But she is always bring up we are just friends. I am Not sure how she feels about me or if she feels something for me. I like her but I am not sure if I should wait, if should tell her, or how to. Could everyone help because I like her alot.

thanks for your advice. I saw her yesterday at her job. When I walked in she hey but she said it like she was down about something. I went to her cash register to talk I couldn't talk long because people behind me were waiting. I wanna her if we could go somewhere to talk but i'm not sure to go about it because she is working.

See I have known this girl for a while. We have always been friends. We end up having a class together. In that class I notice she started acting different towards me. She was being extra nice and always trying to me on every project we had to do. I would also ask me some questions like what kind of girls I like. I also notice during lunch she would be sitting her friends and they would just stare at me. This was like a year ago. Now I noticed others things like when I am walking down the hall she sees me coming she looks away not to look me. She would just ignore me now. I am not sure what is going on. See I am into her but now I don't know what to do.

I known this girl for while and I got her number, but every time I call she doesn't answer. I know her from class we talked almost everyday before class. So the last day of class I asked her if I could get her number she gave it to me. But when I she says she can't talk, or won't answer. I gave her my number but she doesn't return my calls. I not sure if she just doesn't what to talk to me or is busy. And I not sure I should keep calling her.

Thanks for your help everyone. But I am not so sure what to say to her now because the last time i talked her i asked her out.

Early this year I started talking to this girl in my math class. Before I was talking to her I noticed she kept turnig around to look at someone(see I sat behind her) once I looked at her when she looked back. She saw that I saw her and turned around real fast. Just recently I got her number I talked to her a couple of times. The last time I talked to her I ask her if she would like to go out sometime. She paused for a second and said yea but I got a boyfiend. I don't know what to do now.