J_82

has anyone been on setraline? iv just started takin it although i really didnt want to iv not got a choice im gonna end up killing myself,together with councilling, and was just wonderin and hoping that its worked for anyone?

im not sure what u mean there?u say uv just finished ur periods,but ur on ur third day of periods?im a little confused cos periods last 5 days? the ovulation time is 10 days after the first day of ur period,so this is the most dangerous time.eggs usually only last a day or two when they leave the ovary but sperm last 5 days. but yer i agree just take the morn after pill,u hav 72 hrs to take it but the sooner the better, and theres never usually any side effects, mayb a little feelin of nausea but ull hardly notice it. ur period may also b alittle off schedule the next time but the positive of knowin u wont b pregnant def outways that.theres lots of rumours goin around that u can only take it twice in ur lifetime aswell but these arent true. id def jus get to the doc, but next time and onwards just use a condom saves all the worry (cos the worry is pretty bad isnt it) and the havin to go to the doc.

yer i do hear what ur sayin,but im not really talkin about pushing some1 to be with you if they dont wanna be, im just talkin about when people do decide to have space and arent there in eachothers lives for a while, without that person present there i really dont see how absense can make the heart grow fonder, having weeks and weeks apart without that person there after spendin all those special times together,gettin used to not having them there-and its not gonna b literally out of site out of mind cos some1 special will always be there,but its the only way i feel that it will end up being?

but what about for those people that arent sure what they want? like for people that REALLY arent sure. and that when the persons not there their thoughts and feelings are swayed towards walkin away because theyre not there to remind u of them. do people not feel happier with that person there present with them, than just the memory of them when theyre not there,when theyre not there u think about other things too, when theyre there u share doin other things with them. im not really sure how it can make it grow fonder if theyre not there, ull end up growin apart rather that goin thro doin the same things together? i mean to SOME extent, absense makes the heart grow fonder, but really thinkin about it, ultimately-isnt it out of site out out of mind?

hi was wondering what people thought to this? some people say absense makes the heart grow fonder? but some people say out of site,out of mind. im my unfortunate experience i always seem to be on the receiving end of out of site out of mind, but what does everyone else rekon?