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Thank you sisterlynch for responding, no has responded for awhile. First things have gotten progressively worse. Now he is saying we will never get back together and I don't know if its because I'm always asking if he's seeing this person or that person. It's hard, this is my husband and I CANNOT believe this is the person that I married. He is not himself. His friends are party animals and he actually told my best friend that he does see women but he LOVES me and no one will ever come before me. Can you believe this juvenile nonsense. I have a six year old son, I really don't have time to play these kinds of games but at the same time I am still very much in love with this man and HE KNOWS IT. It hurts soo much, I pray every night for this to be over. I'm so afraid during this time he will meet someone and fall in love with them. That is a very scary feeling. I don't have any family that I can move in with. As I stated inmy first post, I just purchased this home here in GA and I hate it because this was supposed to be OUR first home and now we're here all alone. I am going to move back up north closer to my family so that I can at least get a break from my son once in a while. He tells me that he wants me to change because I was always nagging and questioning his EVERY move, which is true, but then he tells me we're not getting back together? He says if he told my best friend if he tells me that theres a chance then I will nag the heck outta him rushing things to be back to normal. What do I do now?

Hi, You did mention you are a married man, so I would say do NOT pursue this any further. Whatever is prompting you to go outside of your marriage, use that same incentive to spice up things with your wife at home. It's not fair to her for u to have strong feelings for someone else. If you are separated or divorced, being that u didn't mention that THEN I would say go for it, but DON'T be too pushy. Call her! Otherwise save your marriage, I would give anything to save mine.

My husband and I both are 27 yrs old and have been married for almost seven years. We have a six year old son who absolutely adores his Dad. In June of this year he decided that he didnt want to do it anymore and we separated. During that time he would tell me he loves me and misses me. While I purchased a home and moved to GA, he has been staying in another state during this time (yes I do know it's his male friend) and this friend has LOTS of "girlfriends." I have asked him, begged him, and cried for him to come home, and at first he was telling me he was coming home and all of that. But hasn't yet!! He tells me hes not seeing anyone else(I do NOT believe him) but yet hes telling me he wants to be free and doesnt want to be in a committed relationship with anyone. He calls often to speak to his son. I am soooooooo stressed out. At first I was calling him ALL of the time, listening to his msgs on his cell phone ( i had the code)and calling his friends so they could talk to him then he told me that I appear weak when I keep crying to him. Now in the past week, I feel good. I haven't called him or anything or even had the desire to, but I REALLY want him back. He has cheated once before, but otherwise is pretty good to me. I was also very very jealous and constantly questioned him about his whereabouts, calling all the time while hes out. Did I push him away? I am the only child, and my Mom just passed away. Is he feeling resentful? what could be going on. He had the nerve to tell me to let him chase me, as if we're teenagers. I asked him does he want a divorce, and he said "maybe that's the best thing." Then, the next morning he called my friend and told her that he doesnt want a divorce and does want to work it out, but that I want to know exactly when its going to happen and that he can't tell me when. But when he speaks to me he tells me he doesnt want to work it out. I'm dying inside, my son wants his Dad, I want my husband. I have lost ALOT of weight due to this, I am sooo depressed.