I think it's good to look to the future and have some stuff planned out, but you never know what might happen. I know a number of people have warned me about being with an older man, saying you'll just be taking care of him later on. But I think that can happen with any relationship, so if I dated someone my own age and he got into some accident, I might have had to take care of him too. It's not an excuse for not being with someone because way down the line it might be harder. People can't help who they fall in love with, it just happens...