What do you do when you really want a hug?

[MasterT]

Right now I'm feeling pretty lonely... I was wondering what everyone here does when they feel like they really want a hug from someone or someone to cry on.

 

I've been feeling that on and off for the last couple of days... I cheer myself up by watching videos and such, but I still can't get that feeling of really needing a hug from someone off my back.

 

What do you do to cope with this feeling?

[Jetta]

Hug a big pillow if you can't find a friend to hug. I know I've become more huggy since not being around people as much.

[JoeWho]

Get a dog if you dont already have one. Seriously!!! They love you unconditionally and they are so damn funny.

[MasterT]

Get a dog if you dont already have one. Seriously!!! They love you unconditionally and they are so damn funny.

 

I'm a cat lover myself, but I live in a dorm so I can't get one

[astaro]

give yourself a hug then, after all you are your own best friend (or should be anyhow)

[MasterT]

give yourself a hug then, after all you are your own best friend (or should be anyhow)

 

Haha, true, but that isn't quite what I am looking for.

[Shiva 2007]

I agree with Joe Who, the dog hug for me is something very special, especially when you are feeling down, they could sense it and it's so gratifying that they understand your need

[astaro]

yea i know what your going through, i feel that every time i get into bed, the reason i suggested it was mostly attempting a diversion

[Clementine orange]

yeah, I go with hug the dog. That unconditional love thing is great. In the abscencse of a dog (and I do pity you) - do good works: random kindness type things. It takes your mind of your own misery.

 

Re-reading a favorite book from your childhood can be comforting too. I haul out the Narnia series whenever Im feeling low

[hosswhispra]

I hug a horse. They are so big and warm. They're great creatures to hug and ride

[Grosse vache]

There's a couple of guys at work that are great at hugging. One in particular. He's a big guy and he wraps his arms all the way round you and just sort of envelopes you. I love his hugs. Everytime I see him I get a hug from him and it keeps me going until next time.