bubblebath Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 What does this mean? When a guy seldom makes eye contact with a woman when she is looking at him but is nearly always looking at that woman when she is NOT looking at him (but she can see him from the corner of her eye, right? ). Am I correct in assuming that he does not want her to know he is looking? Quote Link to comment
JoeWho Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 I know what you are talking about. Usually of I do something like that, I am just checking her out without trying to look like I am checking her out. Slick right? lol . I see girls do the same thing also. Quote Link to comment
bubblebath Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 You have to feel quite attracted to the woman to do that right? Or just so-so? Quote Link to comment
JoeWho Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Not necessarily, although if I keep doing it over and over then yes I would be attracted to her and would eventually start making eye contact or just talk to her depending on the setting. Quote Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 the person is more than likely shy or doesn't want to seem like a weirdo by staring. it is always to check out someone when they aren't looking, but don't want to be caught or feel like they are alienating the person. but then again, there are those freaks out there that just stare. Quote Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 It means they are checking you out? Quote Link to comment
Iceman26 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Normally this happens when a guy is checking out T or A and doesn't want to get caught and possibly face a rude reprisal. That, or he is shy. Quote Link to comment
ghost69 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 it doesn't have to be T or A. not at all. you can be admiring someone's appearance. it is usually when you haven't seen someone before or in a long time and they are different from anything you've seen and grab your fancy. i can't believe i just typed fancy. i did it again. geez. Quote Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Gawking or making a person feel uncomfortable is wrong, but casual glances is fine. People should not be ashamed of checking someone out. It's perfectly normal. Just as I said though, prolonged gawking or hootin/hollarin is bad. Quote Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 it makes you look like a weirdo if you stare too long. but you want to make your 'looks' at the person apparent. it shows interest. Quote Link to comment
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