SO what to do now?

[BrokenHeart82]

I wrote last week about feeling jilted that I always make the considerable drive to see my BF for the last 4-5 weeks.

 

I havent seen him in 8 days do to schedules and he had his son all weekend and until last night.

 

I miss him, he misses me..has been in contact all during our "hiatus" and quite sweet.

 

He asked today if id come see him tonight...saying that he knows its asking a lot but he misses me, has to be up extra early tomorrow for inventory tomorrow (i know this to be true) and would i please come see him tonight?

 

SO im not sure..i miss him lots...but i dont want to keep subscribing to the cycle of being the only one making the drive...but I also dont want stubborness to get in the way of us.

 

So do I go but let him know i expect him to drive this weekend

 

or do I stay home so that he'll be missing me for almost two week and be more prompted to come up on the weekend?

[sddeaston]

Why play games? Its a relationship. Tell him you will drive there tonight, if he will drive to you this weekend.

[kellbell]

Hey there,

 

I would make a compromise. Tell him you would drive to see him tonight if can come up to see you over the weekend. I mean you miss him terribly but also, there needs to be give and take.

 

Good luck.