confused/fed up

[ScottyB108]

Yeah so i was with my ex for a year and a half, we lived together for 4 months, we go to the same school so at the end of july she broke up with me and the next day i was moving into my new apartment, real nice right. So after about a month of her calling me and everything i get back to school in september and baiscally do everything you're not supposed to, beg, plead, all that crap. Went into NC for a good month or two right after she told me her mom was ill and she really didn't want to talk.

 

So yesterday we get to talking and i say we should do something tonight, so she asked what i have in mind and i said idk you have any suggestions? so she says that she's going out to meet up with her friends and i can come if i want. Then goes to mention that her friend and his roommates are going to be there just to let me know so i don't feel weird, even though there is nothing to feel weird about. Wants to make sure I won't feel weird with her talking to guys. Those were pretty much her words exactly. So anyways I go meet up with our friend who she's meeting up with and then she shows up by herself and says hi to me, that's pretty much all she said to me the whole night. Then just starts blatantly flirting with every guy in front of me. Well turns out this other girl I've been talking to since me and the ex broke up, shows up so i just start hanging out with her, and my ex leaves to go to another bar.

 

After an hour or so I go to the bar my ex is at to meet back up with my other friends, not for her. I don't see her when I'm walking and as I pass her she grabs my arm and goes "heyyyy when did you get here?" and i just kinda give her a quick answer and go off and dance with the other girl. My ex starts dancing with her friend right behind me, like I bumped into her a couple times, so I moved to a further away spot.

 

But my question is she invites me out, then doesn't talk to me, pulls all that stuff, why? It just seems very immature to me. Any thoughts on this would help me out

[Maverick32x]

well... actually you asked her to go out.... and she warned you that she would be with someone that she was probably interested in, and if it bugged you, that it wasnt a good idea to go.

 

Clearly you still like her, and its kind of obvious that she has moved on.. in my eyes... but she probably is a nice person, and wants to try to maintain some sort of a friendship..... however, that doesnt seem plausible in this situation...

 

my thoughts are that you need to go back to NC, there is no way this relationship will ever come together at this point... she is interested in other guys, and has already rejected your advances.

[daletroN]

i second maverick's opinion

[ScottyB108]

yeah the friend that she mentioned was a good friend of hers from high school that just moved to the city we live in b/c he got a job here, and i just want to say that i was not there by myself, i was there with another girl and was just trying to have a good time and catch up with her b/c we've been talking more...