Feeling left behind

[musicguy]

I'm gonna be 28 in 5 months, so yeah shush

[Dougie_D]

I need some help... I need real life situations like mine. Let's say you are alone and you just moved to a new place. You know no one. ...Where would you start? Is it lame to go by yourself? Remember I'm 26.

[musicguy]

go to college and if not, join a club or see what community events are going on..check out the local music scene

[Dougie_D]

I already have a degree...and I'm in my last semester at a community college for an associates...I'm backwards! I do hang out with my local scene....but I already know these people. When I was 14 or 15 I was hanging out with the college kids. It was called the "autonomy house"...

the newer kids....are younger than me or think I'm already weird. I've tried to start bands with these kids and they won't even give me a chance...I don't blame them. When I was 18 I didn't really want to play with some guy close to 30.

Let's say I go somewhere at a show, and I see a girl. Do I buy her a drink?? Should I say? Who are you here to see?....I've come to a conclusion though, after thinking about things.

I can start a conversation...but I never have the guts to ask her for the number...I've never thought it was the right time. But I don't want to ask her if she's not feeling it?!!! I'm so lost!