HellFrost666 Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 If I were you I wouldn't do anything. It may seem apathetic, but you don't want to complicate the situation any further. Does the guy know it was you who overheard and told her? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 I agree with HellFrost, I wouldnt say anything at this point, ESPECIALLY since you are now dating Molly. Anything you say, and her ex might think that YOU were the one who orchestrated this to get HER to dump him and HE might come get revenge on YOU. Your actions do appear suspect because YOU are the one who ratted on him and was NOT sure about what he said, and now you end up with his EX. Something sounds fishy. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 Did you tell her just to get with her or did you tell her because you felt you knew he was cheating and she needed to know? Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 So you tell a girl she's being cheated on, just to cheat on her and your girlfriend. Don't you think you should tell your own girlfriend you're a cheater. You at least know that with out a shadow of a doubt as its not some partly over heard convo on a phone. Link to comment
melrich Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 Anyone have any better advice? What exactly is it that you want to hear? It's not exactly model behaviour so really the best thing you can do is start to put a few things right and that means being honest with people. Link to comment
melrich Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 I don't think so. Well I don't think too many members are going to give you advice that involves continuing to lie to these people so looking for advice you want to hear becomes a bit of a futile exercise. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Did your friend drop you as a friend? If not, he should because you aren't a friend. Your g/f and this Molly girl should also just keep away from you because you don't practice what you preach. You think it's wrong for your friend to cheat but not you? Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 What exactly is it that you want to hear? It's not exactly model behaviour so really the best thing you can do is start to put a few things right and that means being honest with people. My guess is that he wants someone to tell him he is doing the right thing, which of course, even a blind person could see he is not. Or he is just pulling our chains. Part of me hopes his friend overhears him and then rats him out to his g/f lol. Link to comment
melrich Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 ill do as i please. It's ultimately your choice. People here just give advice from their own perspective which may be different to yours. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 thanks. what about the 26 year old virgin? people are telling him to continue lying to his girlfriend. ill do as i please. Is he actually cheating on her? NO!! So you do think it is ok for you to cheat while it was not for your friend to cheat? Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 thanks. what about the 26 year old virgin? people are telling him to continue lying to his girlfriend. ill do as i please. Maybe people were more inclined to help the guy that wasn't mean when they told him things he didn't like. By the way, you were one of the people that told him to lie, most people encouraged him to not tell her or to tell her, not out and out lie. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 I don't think you should stay with either girl until you realize you need to treat them with respect and not lie to them. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Lindsay, it's not what you think... This is why you don't date 2 girls at once. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 I guess the initial post (and responses were removed). Makes the thread seem a bit odd lol. As if Hellfrost started it hehe. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted January 30, 2007 Author Share Posted January 30, 2007 ^ Yea, I am just waiting for somone new to come into it and start trash talking me. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 what happened to the thread? The responses are kind of off kilter. Link to comment
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