j201714 Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 Hi all, if someone could answer this for me it would be much apprciated! Have a look at my previous post for whole relationship break up!!! But does a man says what he means in a break up such as " lets see what happens in a few months" or will he do anything to get the woman off his back??? Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 Hey there... Welcome to eNotAlone! I think you are looking to hard at the statement above. If someone told me, let's see what happens in a couple of months.... That BOLD statement would let me know one of two things: 1.) They assume I will be around in a few months 2.) They assume that they can still contact and see me It really depends on your situation. I would chalk it up as, he want you gone. My reasoning is, if he comes back later....you are surprised. If he doesn't, you would have already started mving on. Good luck to you! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
j201714 Posted January 17, 2007 Author Share Posted January 17, 2007 hmmm i wish i could imagine myself moving on in a few months i dont need him to live my life i just want him!!! As i say its like a really good handbag i dont need it to complet my life, it would just be nice if i could have it!!! Its just so painful! Link to comment
SuperDave71 Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 I am sure its painful. I am sorry you are hurting. I really am. Sometimes the very things we want the most, turn out they are bad for us. ( PUT THAT DOUBLE FUDGE BROWNIE DOWN!!!! DOH! -SuperDave71 Link to comment
letigr Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 Sorry to say it, but if you ask me, its a guys way of blowing you off gently Link to comment
lostinreading Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 Actually I disagree, that's not what they mean when they say it, what they mean is "I think I don't want you any more, and I'd like to see if I can do better, but if I change my mind, I'd like to think I could come back" The problem being that they usually end up deciding its the right decision and don't come back, which is why it seems like someone trying to let you down gently. It however is definitely the signal to say "fine, enjoy yourself, goodbye forever, you have officially lost out." Link to comment
Jason1080 Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 Hmm, if I were to say that, i would basically be telling you to leave me alone, but I still care for the feelings of the other person and dont wanna hurt them in any way. But then again, this is how I interpret it Link to comment
j201714 Posted January 18, 2007 Author Share Posted January 18, 2007 See i think i knew this deep down! i just needed it confiming Link to comment
JoeWho Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 I think that is a pretty crappy thing to say to someone. If I were you I would either ask him to be completely honest with you or never talk to him again. Link to comment
j201714 Posted January 19, 2007 Author Share Posted January 19, 2007 see i wish i could ask him, but he wont even talk to me now. I just hope i am not deep down holding on to those words, getting on with my life but hoping subconcialsy (sorry for the spelling!!) that we will get back together and when it dosent happen being devasted again. i already cant eat i have lost a stone and half since we have split and i dont want to have to go through all this pain again. i also want to say what a great site this is it has been a great help to me as i am sure it is to other pepole. Link to comment
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