a girl at my uni library

[baldo]

There's a girl at my university library who I've become quite keen on. It's just lust really and I don't even know if she's even noticed me yet.

I would like to chat to her and learn a little about her though, even if she's not interested - just to prove it to myself.

 

I decided this year that I'm going to be fearless, but how do you speak to someone you've never met and know nothing about without seeming like some weirdo?

[rocio]

Make eye contact and smile. Sit at the same table as her. Be friendly instead of flirty, so she won't feel overwhelmed. Just act like you want to be her friend. Be casual. Don't give her too much attention. Good luck!

[Reluctant Rebuilder]

Also, through repeated contact you can slowly get more familiar.