What do you do if she rejects you?

[XxjutxX]

My friends and I see this really hot girl.

 

They ask me (right in front of her) if I like her.

 

I say that shes not my type.

 

She flirts with me, even though she has a boyfriend (at least thats what I heard her saying to her friends)

 

The next day, I go over and talk to her.

 

She acts as if she doesnt want to be near me, and as soon as she gets a chance, she walks away.

 

I think I blew it somewhere. I wonder where I messed up...

[XxjutxX]

can you help me out here?

[friscodj]

Tell your friends not to do that again and go find a girl who is available and wants to be with you! She's not your type anyway!

 

She is out there and you will find her. Let this situation and this girl go. It's OK to do that. The situation served its purpose in motivating you to think about things like this and gain wisdom from doing such so when you do meet a girl who is your type, is available, and wants to be with you, you'll be more prepared.

[agent1607307371]

If she's not your type, why are you worried.

 

To hear that from a stranger still must hurt and that is probably what prompted her behaviour.

[CarnelianButterfly]

I say that shes not my type.

After saying that in front of her, do you really need to ask?

[Bethany]

After saying that in front of her, do you really need to ask?

 

Yup Agreed.

[Naomi]

What is the matter with you?You just publicly rejected her! If you are interested in her you gotta really suck it up and make a move and apologize.

[insofar]

It sounds like you were trying to act cool in front of your friends, which might be giving her an impression you don't want to give. Agreeing with the last few replies here.