should i unblock her email

[kickedin]

i blocked it after our fight.....and now that we broke up i wonder if should unblock it since i told if she needs something i will try to be there ofr her.......or just leave it so if its really important it forces her to call....mid you this girl loves to communicate over email even breaking up...

[VIRGOLDY]

I wouldn't Kicked. because you're going to constantly be checking your email to see if she wrote. Keep her blocked for a while...till you feel stronger...then see how you feel.

[kellbell]

Hey there,

 

Sorry things have been tough lately. I would keep her email blocked. She is no longer your responsibility, nor her shoulder to cry on. She is your ex. She has family and friends she can turn to. If chooses not to, that is her issue.

 

Hang in there.

[sparkle1]

DOn't kick it.

 

The reason she is happier to converse via email is because its easier.

 

it will pull you in.

 

Don't do it.

 

Sparkle x

[kickedin]

thanks guys......i think i like the security of it...i cant take an email saying "i realized this and that or i met someone" rather just not know if she needs something let her call i guess

[sparkle1]

YOu are ex's for a reason.

 

She needs to learn to rely on other people. She gave up the right to call on you when it ended.

 

You have the knowledge you can do it if you so wished.

 

X

[rose2summer]

Exes don't get relationship priviledges.

 

If she really had cared that much, she would have been running, pounding your door down to get back with you.

 

Seeing that is not the case, she does not get your undivided attention by you being an open 24/7 7-11 open to her needs at all hours.

 

Let her feel your loss, and if she really wants to be back together that badly, no hurricane, rain storm, earth-quake, tsumani, anything would stop her from getting to you.

 

Hugs, Rose