How can I make the kisses better???

[Yvette84]

So I kissed my new guy tonight for the first time and it was sweet, (even though his eyes were open which kinda creeps me out!) he isn't that experienced so it was kinda awkward. How can I make it run smoother....? it was kinda like we were out of sync.....anyone know what i'm talking about??

 

[need2bme]

I know what ya mean. Of course it is always awkward at first, until you figure each other out.

 

I have kissed before with eyes open, just before the hot and heavy stuff, cause I want to see her and i think it is kinda sexy.

 

Also, my SO (I think she still is), didn't like the fact that I use my tongue a little, BEFORE we are actually kissing. On her lips, etc. (just lightly) She did not like it and finally told me that. If course she could have been a little bit easier with the info. I spoke to a girl friend of mine and she said she liked that and there would be nothing wrong with it.

 

The SO has a habit, of opening her mouth wide when she kisses, which I don't get. I am used to kissing with mouths semi or just a little open.

 

Anyway, it is all about figuring each other out. I thought the kissing issue with us, might be a deal breaker and why we haven't spoken as much lately, but I think there was something else going on.

 

So, maybe you and he will get used to the way each other kisses.

[darkblue]

Some people kiss with their eyes open.

 

If you close your eyes, he may follow suit - but I wouldn't see it as a huge problem.

 

You are both at the stage where you don't know eachother's pace.

 

Give it time.

Patience is a virtue.

[AngelEyez]

Tell him to close his eyes! I don't think he would get offended. When I first kissed, the guy told me to close my eyes because it was creepy when I kept my eyes open. Haha, sometimes I would keep them open just to play around.

[Survictor]

I would find it unnerving if he had his eyes open. It would make me think he wasn't into it.

[quietgrl]

Yvette84,

 

Are you sure your heart over your last Bf?It seem like your moving to fast.That's probably why the kiss didn't go right.

[Yvette84]

I thought I was moving too fast and wanted to be "just friends" with this guy...but it didn't last more than a week. he's too awesome

but no i think it may have been awkward cause we were both laying down sideways and that's kinda a weird kissing position!