infatuation, crush, love

[funkless]

I was reading somewhere that love is a mutual attraction and respect between two people and a crush really isnt love but just some sort of one way fest attraction thing. Whats an infatuation...is it like love or a crush or somewhere in between?

[deepshallowhuman]

Do what feels best, theres no manual, look at how you feel. Classify your feelings yourself. Apologies if your some physc major or something. I just got divorced Fri and was checjking out single father sites, I just felt like I should reply to your mail as no one else had and it came up as someone waiting for advice. It seems to me you have some issue but maybe not? if you do you should come out and just cut to the chase, wow Im thinking of not even posting this reply, but heck thats sadder than posting it since I have come this far. Be happy, dont deny yourself, dont sweat the details, get the big stuff right, be happy as happiness breeds happiness, put it on the line as you get nowhere if you dont and people who dont are generally sad individuals. Wow I have to stop drinking beer, there you go thankyou you have done me a service.

[funkless]

Well I've liked this guy for ages and I feel that my crush towards him really is just a one way fest and not exactly love.

 

Im sory about your divorce, must be really tough.

 

Take care

[real amour]

Hello. I had crushes all my life. Yes, unrequited love, unrequited lust. Love and falling in love are two way streets for sure. The rest are just crushes, like liking a celebrity on poster. Trust me. My whole life was like this and it was a waste of time, these crushes which I thought were love.