G/F trouble!?!?!

[BlkWallSt]

i have this g/f and we've been seeing each other for quite a while.everything is cool but she's the shyest person ever, i like quiet girls but theres a fine line betwen shy and invisible. she doesnt like public affection so we kiss when were alone and i need to know if any body has any tips on what i should do to make her more comfortable.

[TheRedQueen]

It really depends, how long have you guys been going out?

[BlkWallSt]

btw im in 9th grade...well we went out in 7th grade so were good friends and weve been going out now for like 3 months

[TheRedQueen]

Well when I was in 9th grade, I was still quite uncomfortable in my skin, maybe your girlfriend is still growing into getting comfortable with herself, maybe the best thing you should do is be supportive of her, by being understanding and patient.

[TheRedQueen]

Because you seem to be especially confident and mature for your age, maybe you should take note that not everyone is as self-aware and as confident as you are.

[bebecole]

yeah i was the same way back in middleschool..

shes still growing up & going thru alot of changes.

shes crack out of her shell adventually.

[BlkWallSt]

thanx yea i love her so ill just wait for her to be comfortable with us and then well see what happens

[TheRedQueen]

thanx yea i love her so ill just wait for her to be comfortable with us and then well see what happens

 

Great attitude! She sounds like one lucky girl.

[Meow18]

She will get more comfortable with you, especially in public. Just give her time and be patient! She's just shy and sometimes it's hard for shy people to open up and show their feelings especially in public.

 

It's great that you are being so supportive! Just give it time and she will open up a lot more with you!