Can't orgasm during sex, help!

[SheWolf]

My husband and I finally were able to have sex we did it for like five hours straight and I still didn't orgasm, is something wrong with me?? Any suggestions on how I could have one?

[lil_unique_me]

Dont worry and i wouldnt panic, the statistics show that only approximately 1 in 10 women are able to orgasm through penetration alone. If you want an orgasm just ask him to do something a little different, i asked my boyfriend and he was more than happy to accommodate.

Catie xxx

[SheWolf]

I've only done it like three times, so I guess I shouldn't really be worried.

[lil_unique_me]

I've only done it like three times, so I guess I shouldn't really be worried.

 

No, please dont be worried at all. Its totally fine

Catie xxx

[mmd]

some women cant orgasm without rubbing the clit...

[hosswhispra]

Do you know how to have an orgasm on your own?

 

That's what you need to do first...before having one with someone. Masturbate and find out what works. That's what I do.

[annie24]

Do you know how to have an orgasm on your own?

 

That's what you need to do first...before having one with someone. Masturbate and find out what works. That's what I do.

 

agreed, if you know how to give yourself one first, then that will help.

 

most women don't really enjoy sex the first dozen or so times they do it.

[amtjrtcet]

Yep, YOU need to get to know you better.....masturbation is important for a woman to be able to orgasm. Don't be afraid to purchase a vibrator. Experiment a little. Once YOU are familiar with what makes YOU feel good, you can apply that to your sex life.

[SheWolf]

I used to masterbate a lot before I met my husband then he started doing it for me, and yes even though it did hurt at times sex felt really good the few times I've had it and I had this weird sensation that I had to pee at times lol.

[darthpeladus]

I think that sensation that you have to pee is the beginning of an orgasm, as far as I have heared\read

[SheWolf]

Could my age be part of it, I'm 19, will be 20 in Jan.?

[angelic monkey]

could someone please help me..what is mmasturbation? and how does one do it? are the any harmful effects?

[BornToResist]

For me it feels like I have to pee before I have an orgasm from sex. I fought that urge for a while, but then I just let it go, and no, I didn't pee. It was a HUGE orgasm and it was great. So pee before sex so you won't have that worry in the back of your mind, and once that feeling comes up, just let it go. I assure you, you won't regret it.

 

Angelic, I'm assuming you're a girl? You don't know what masterbation is? Well it's self gratification of the sexual kind. There are plenty of threads about how to masterbate, I suggest you check them out. No harmful side effects whatsoever, but you'll be hooked and want to do it again. It will take some practice but the payoff is good.

[SheWolf]

Thanks so much everyone, I really appreciate it.