Belgian girl Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 Has anyone suggestions (As some know.. I would love to have my ex back and the truth is I really don't do so much about my outside)? My plan is to keep on going NC (Guess nothing else is possible) but while I'm alone now I want to improve myself Does anyone have more ideas? What I'm doing now is: - I've started running every evening for about 40minutes (since about 3weeks) - I would take better care about my appeareance - I continue eating and drinking healthy things Every little idea is welcome thank you!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 well, you should be getting healthy for yourself anyways! yes, eat better, exercise. get a makeover, maybe a few cute new outfits. get involved in some clubs, meet some new friends. do all these things for you, not for your ex! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helpme2 Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 drink a lot of water, the more hydrated you are the better you feel and the better your skin is. buy some good shampoo, the better my shampoo is the better my hair is and it just puts an extra bounce in my step. I know it's not your "outside" but you might start keeping a journal of things you like about yourself, and goals you have accomplished, the more confident you are and the more you like yourself the better you look to other people just because you are carrying yourself differently. Oh, and get some pretty lipstick, I like to have pretty lipstick (my lips are my favorite face feature ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belgian girl Posted September 4, 2006 Author Share Posted September 4, 2006 thank you already on my profile there's a picture of me by the way but I already can feel happy and be content, it's like I'm still searching for something that makes my life more difficult and more with a goal. Can't understand why he preferes this girl.. everything see says I thought it wouldn't worth saying but he likes it:S Often feeling confused.. Best to you all and more advise is still welcome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 aw! you are very pretty! you never know why people prefer the ones they do. it's like prince charles - diana was a beautiful and popular princess, but it's camilla that won his heart. anyways, don't beat yourself up. you are great, and you'll meet a man that's right for you... good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belgian girl Posted September 4, 2006 Author Share Posted September 4, 2006 Thank you, but it doesn't make very much sense to me if I'm perhaps beautiful or not Well, he always wants to feel accepted I guess and she is laughing with his jokes and doing funny as well and giving him compliments and start talking about superego etc. and saying the same things he does Was easy for me to do like that, but I don't think it's the best way of living. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gator Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 BG, I think it is a great idea to improve yourself, but do it for you and not him. BTW, you are a very pretty girl. If you are serious about eating right, cut out all grains and sugar. This means no bread, pasta, anything with flour, sugar, cookies, cake, crackers, and anything processed. Eat grass- fed meat, free range chicken, fish, vegetables, fruit, butter, and other whole foods. Check out link removed for more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belgian girl Posted September 4, 2006 Author Share Posted September 4, 2006 great! And thanks for the compliment. As I said I really don't want to proud of my outside and I don't care so much about the outside for a partner, but it cheered me up a little I will check that site! I usually eat 1 bread a day (not always I do eat warm food during a day) but I try to eat a lot biologica food and no sugar for me and never extra salt and not so much meet, more often fish (especially when it's last date » cheaper and also moral aspect» otherwise they'll throw it away and I don't like the idea that I stimulate 'dying' animals for meat) (edited b/c some stupid writing errors) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 Thank you, but it doesn't make very much sense to me if I'm perhaps beautiful or not Well, he always wants to feel accepted I guess and she is laughing with his jokes and doing funny as well and giving him compliments and start talking about superego etc. and saying the same things he does Was easy for me to do like that, but I don't think it's the best way of living. well, maybe you two just weren't the best match. would life really be all that fun for you, if you spent the next 50 years laughing at stupid jokes? maybe you are meant to meet someone better for you.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belgian girl Posted September 4, 2006 Author Share Posted September 4, 2006 thank you, I'm still not out of that for myself, guess I will see what happen (more I even can't do I think..) I think that if I was sure that he really loved me and wanted to stay I could have enough with it that it isn't much deeper than that humoristic. Was also doubting b/c with humor you can cover underlying problems for example. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belgian girl Posted September 8, 2006 Author Share Posted September 8, 2006 Does a lot of people dislike it when a woman is a little muscular? I mean, my legs are quite muscular and I want my stomach as well and my arms a little Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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