STill wanting her back

[toneberyking]

Hey, yea so my gf left me and totally cut off communications. i last talked to her a few days back and she was a little mean and said it was time for us to end. i had no clue, but only 1. that was she was always wanting to be single and that we rushed into it. but the last convo she said shell call me later./

 

what should i do. should i wait for her to call me or me call her.

im really sad and scared. i really gave it all and it seemed like she did too!!!

 

my friends told me shell get hurt and sad and come running back and when she does i should kick her to the curb! but i love her and i want her back!!

[nilli]

Don't call her. I know it's hard but let your emotions settle.

 

If you called her, would you be able to handle her being mean to you again?

 

Give her time to ponder her own behaviour and do what you can to take you mind off things and feel happier.

[joyce1412]

my friends told me shell get hurt and sad and come running back and when she does i should kick her to the curb! but i love her and i want her back!!

 

if she comes back to you lonely and vulnerable, you shouldn't get back with her. you should get back with her because she knows her life is good but would be better with you in it.