NC is driving me crazy!!!!!

[shau_nee]

How do you do NC when you break up and move out and the person won't give you back your belongings? I would do NC but i really want my stuff back and he won't answer my phone calls or talk to me. i told him i would never call him or see him again if i just can go to his place and get my things out. he hasn't talked to me for three months and i need to talk to him to get my things back.

[Meow18]

That's tricky. What kind of stuff is it? Can you live without it?

 

I think you should send a friend over there and ask her/him to get your stuff for you. Or go over there with a friend. That way contact with him will be limited and you can still hopefully get your stuff back.

[need2bme]

Do the friend thing. Either have a friend go alone or with you. Don't use it as an excuse to go over there. I did and it just makes it worse.