Oddly enough....

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

well last night my girl friend cut it off after just 3 months, and i'm really confused because we had a really great time saturday she even told me she did but last night she said she wasn't feeling anything more than a friendship anymore and she was sorry for leading me on like she did, but the thing is i'm not really disappointed by it and i'm just confused on how i should be feeling right now, because i'm not mad sad or scared or anything

 

more of a rant but any input would be appreciated

[4lorn]

There's no single way to feel in these situations. You react at first emotion, then it starts to sink in. Sounds more like you're in shock than anything...give it time. Best wishes.

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

Maybe you two really were just cut out more to be friends than bf/gf?

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

that's what she said she wanted it to be and the more i think about it the more that's what i really want to be too

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

That sounds like an ideal way to end a relationship

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

but is it normal for me not to want any contact from her for a while?

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

I think that's pretty normal. You two could always be friends down the road, but if you're going to end your relationship, then yes it seems reasonable to want a bit of separation in between.

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

to tell you the truth i really have nothing to say to her, and i couldn't care any less if she does want to talk to me