Is she interested or am i picking up wrong signals?

[in_search_of]

I've recently become pretty good friends with a woman who is a lesbian, i'm a heterosexual guy. With that said, it feels as if though she is constantly flirting with me. She said she's never been with a man before, but i think she's interested in me. Anyone been through anything like this before?

 

Sincerely,

 

Chasing amy?

[BrokenWingedFaery]

How do you know she's a lesbian and bisexual? She might be bi, leaning more towards lesbian, but still attracted to men occasionally.

[in_search_of]

Thanks for the reply. How do i know---well, she is 24 and has never had a straight relationship nor slept with men. She has had several lesbian relationships, and that's it. But it feels as if she's curious and may or may not have chosen me--is it possible? or am i way off base. Have any women (lesbian) out there gone through this--you knew you were gay but felt attracted to a guy?

[BrokenWingedFaery]

Just because she's never been with a man doesn't mean she's a lesbian, it may mean that she's more sexually or mentally attracted to women, but like I said, might still be attracted to the occasional man.

 

Ask her. That's the only way to know for sure.

[Cadence308]

Ask her if she's interested. She may be and she may not be. Sometimes women seem to flirt a lot and may not even realize it. If she's 24 yo and never been with a man, there's a good chance she may never want to be with a man. Then again, she could be attracted to you and never felt that sexual attraction for a man before. The best way to find out is just to ask her.

[in_search_of]

Thanks to all for the replies, the advice is much appreciated. I will ask her--not immediately, but soon.

[Tigris]

I agree with the others, the only way to find out is to ask her.