Blueyed2000 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Okay so there is this girl. Normal way to start out one of these right, lol..Anywho, I am really into her, and I think she is into me..She works with one of my friends, and I have met her a few times before I realized they worked together. Well I had just chilled at my friends work with him a couple night shifts because I had nothing better to do, and she was working with him. And she invited me to chill with her when she works night shifts as well, becuase normally they are all by themselves from 6-11, so it was more of an invitation to have some company around while she was alone. Well it has been a good month or so and we have gotten to know each other more..I just recently finished teaching her how to solve a Rubics Cube, and we swapped numbers as well..I didn't think she was into me, too..But my friends started to tell me to ask her out, and advice like that never comes from him so it kinda threw me for a loop..Also I never think anyone is into me so it is just a natural feeling I have so it doesn't count for much. Well anyway yesterday we swapped numbers and I just had a few questions, How long should I wait to give her a call, and also, should I ask her on a date and how? Link to comment
vandgsmom Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 If you like her, call her tonight. It's not as if you are strangers that met in a bar. You have spent time getting to know one another on a very basic level, so the whole "I have to wait a few days to show I am not some overeager weirdo out of a quickie" is not an issue. Call, chit-chat about something you two recently talked about while you hung out, and then mention that you had thought of a good place/time to go out, and would it be good for her?? Just Do It. Now. Tonight. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 How long should I wait to give her a call, and also, should I ask her on a date and how? Sheesh. Just call her already, and ask her for a 'Date'. Hopefully by the time you get around to it, she hasn't gone into a coma induced by boredom from spending a month having you hang around her work, and teach her how to do rubics cube. Link to comment
Blueyed2000 Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 ouch..burned..It is a friendship I am not so willing to * * * * up by turning it into a relationship..And I only show up to her work if she asked me to which was not everyday..It just started a month ago. Not only that she just broke up with her significant other not more than a week ago Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Well step to it war guy, or I will take your username away from you. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Don't confess to her that you like her, just ask her out on a date. Do it ASAP because you've been wasting too much time already. Link to comment
Blueyed2000 Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 eh..already done..a dinner next week Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Good job! Kiss her at the end of the date. Link to comment
vandgsmom Posted July 29, 2006 Share Posted July 29, 2006 GOOD FOR YOU!! You can bring her a bouqet of rubic's cubes.... Link to comment
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