blueeyeguy Posted July 24, 2006 Author Share Posted July 24, 2006 thank you sophie ...good post Link to comment
Momene Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 In England we had a discussion on our BBC messageboard and people can and do settle down to be faithful in a relalionship after a promiscuous past. Link to comment
kuys Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 honestly for my standards thats a hell of a lot. I guess I'm drawn to girls who aren't as promiscuos (sp?) I am very picky and have very high standards. Last 2 girls I had relationship with had 2 or less partners in their lifetime, and they are about 22 yrs old now. I would consider them to be very good looking so I don't know if there's a correlation... Link to comment
Momene Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 It is true that the less pretty girls will make more effort in bed and try to outscore their prettier "rivals". Link to comment
confused25 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Yeah 10 is pretty high for a 19 year old . . . I can see why you're so upset this. Because it's also putting yourself in danger of contracting STD's. If you decide to have sex with her make sure you ask her to get tested first . . . Link to comment
KatieEmma17 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 I would say don't let it bug you ... You see her for who she truly is... try to understand why she acted the way she did... Make sure she knows how much you love her! Good luck with everything Katie Link to comment
KatieEmma17 Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 and when i say *it* ... i mean the number of partners. Yes she has betrayed your trust... But if u feel shes worth it... Go for it. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 24, 2006 Share Posted July 24, 2006 Yea, I could understand what lying about something serious as this means, but understand that she probbably felt horrible even mentioning about having more than 3 partners and thought that you would not date her again if she told you the truth. Yes in lying she broke your trust but as long as she loves you, gets counseling, understands what led to her behavior and gets tested, then the relation can continue. Link to comment
Momene Posted July 25, 2006 Share Posted July 25, 2006 Did she lie or just not reveal the number early on? I've never revealed about how old I was first time or how many partners I've had until quite late on, like when it gets serious. Link to comment
blueeyeguy Posted July 26, 2006 Author Share Posted July 26, 2006 she lied about it all Link to comment
Momene Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 she lied about it all In which case you have trust issues butb I can understand it´s the sort of thing people lie about, like if a bloke is a 40 year old virgin. Link to comment
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