blueeyeguy

very hard im sik of all these girls tat just dont respec themselves and * * * *

im not a virgin but i want a girl that is a virgin.......i can treat her better than any guy has ever even tried to treat her and i could wait as long as they wanted to no problem........ oshgoshbajosh33 is my aim name hit me up talk to me sumtime im 20 yrs old and would like sum1 to talk to....been hurt by many girls

she lied about it all

if u gonna make that person ur bf it aint just anybody and u need to be truthfull

thank you sophie ...good post

i would also like to say that im not innocent and i cheated on her with 2 woman early in the relationship...im came clean alot sooner than she did tho

because i do love her and i want to be here for her....she has lost my trust yes but im stil with her cuz she atleast came clean with me and it wil just take her sumtime to gain my trust back. i know that if i get anymore lies in the future that this relationship is over. she is seeking professional help now tho

yes i have sat down with her many times and she knows she lost my trust for now....but i respect the fac that she could come out with all this......as for believing everything she says to me though...im not that gullable i always have my doughts when it come to what woman are being trutfull about

well yes she actually lied to me about alot of things ....the whole story is in another thread i started....but i really do think she moved on from that type of life...she shows me everyday she is trying and i can see that she is. i also think that when she came out to me about her past she just let me have it all so no i dont think she has anymore secrets to tell me....and me myself has had 7 partners before her. she once told me about how she dd have clamdia and sh got it all cleaned up now but yes i think it wold be a good idea to o gt cecked out about it. thx everyone for there post also

sit i still talk to my ex's all the time over the internet and my gf doesnt get jealous or mad. i think the reason i do tht is because when sumtimes i just need a fried or to talk to sum1 tha knows me better than i know myself and when ur gf just wont do becuz we all know that the ones we love wont always be brutally honest cuz they dont want to see u hurt. But i would never ever leave my gf for my old ex's its just that they are good to talk to sumtimes when ur in need of help and need opions

yes i kinda think its alot to and only like 3 are from dating..... her past really dont help though im not using it as an excuse but i am taking it into acount

well i am her bf and i love her very much and i see whats on the inside its just that she always told me she only had 7 partners and then se told me it was really 10 and idk it was just buggin me a bit

yes i know that she did not tell me cuz se dint want to loose me and cuz she prob dint want me to judge her ...but isnt that a little selfish

well to start she used to watch her dad beat her mom so he left when she was very young and i know not having a dad is a big part...her mom has never told her she loves her.....she says tat she had sex to feel loved or that they would hopefully fall in love with her

she lost her virginity at 15 but has also had a very troubled past

i was just wondering is 10 guys alot of sexual partners for a 19 yr old girl??

Yes she said that she is changing now and that she is ready to grow up and be mature.....but do i believe it? thanks for the comments and thx for spacing it for me

Hello my name is josh and i have a problem with the love of my life right now and if anyone can tell me what they think give me any tips or just help me out please read this! well me and my girfriend have been dating for 6 months now. i am 20 and she is 18 turning 19. well when we first met i knew that she was just the one for me from the start and we got along really well and we started seeing alot of eachother. we felt really comfortable around eachother and we would alwaysask eachother questions about everything. welll naturally our past came up and we told eachother about ourselves. i was for the most part honest with her and i told her i had sex ith 7 people and been in love 1 time before she said that she had has sex with 7 people and lost her virginity at 17 just like i did. well everything was going great i couldnt have been happier with her and she is the sweetest most hard working good woman i know.well she moved in wth me like te 5th month we were together and thats when the problems started. one day she came to me and told me that she had sex with the guys that she lived with in the house that she lived in when i met her. it really killed me because i had to see him everyday when she used to live there and i didnt know anything....not to mention he is 30+ yrs old! i beat her up emotionally and myself. well i thought everything was over and she had got her secret out and i was happy she told me... she said tha she wouldt hurt me again and that was all she had to get off her chest....i believed her and i forgave her for never teling me and i thought it was the end of that...boy was i wrong. 2 days later she came to me again and told me that she had more to tell me ad i was already still in pain from the last secret. this time was worse she told me that she lost her virginity at 15 and she once had clamidia and that she also slept with the other guy that was living in that house she was in when i met her 1 time. i also seen this guy everyday and didnt know anything about it. and that she had slept with 10 people not 7. i was really killed and felt like i didnt know her and i beat my self up and her for it still to this day.now she tells me she wont hurt me again and that she kept it from me cuz she loves me and knew it would hurt me but i think that is a selfish way to do things. she also says that now she is realizing who she is and that everythng she had done was wrong and she is a changed person and i dont know whether to believe her now or not. she has had a rough life early on she watched her dad beat her mom and he left te family when she was very young and her mom never told her se loved her....she said that she wanted to feel like she was loved so she had sex to do tha is it just an excuse? she made me wait 2 weeks before i could have sex with her but most of her partners were one night stands. she also doesnt even have sex with me anymore cuz she says she is trying to find herself and when she has sex she feels like the old her and she just needs time to find out who she is. i know she feels bad about her past and that she would never cheat on me and there isnt a dought in my mind if he lves me or not but i just cant get her past out of my head and sumtimes i think she is dirty and i just see the dudes that i had to see evryday without knowing that she had sex with them when i lok at her sumtimes. i am not innocent in this tho i have cheated on her in our relationship but told her a long time before she told me er secrets and also i hav had an std also and i told her about that when she told me about her secrets. sumtimes ifeel like i should go and even the score and get to 10 people also...it would make me feel beter and she even gave me permission to cuz she wants to see me happy but i know it is wrong. she is the love of my life nd i dont know what to do cuz her past is killing me everyday and i just want to go back loving that same person that i once knew....if u can hlp me out i would appreciate it to the fullest anythng u can comment about will be helpfull thankyou everyone. -blueeyeguy