What to do

[CAPcadet]

There is this girl at my CAP squadron that i like but i don't know how to tell her and if she likes me what should i do about this?

[John4887]

Take the DIRECT approach, walk up to her, and say:

 

"hi, my name is _____, and I wanted to introduce myself to you and I'd like to get to know you better."

 

Be polite, don't be too forward with her. During CAP meetings, sit accross the way from her. Let her see that you are looking at her, and smile. She'll get the hint sooner or later. When it's time for a break/refreshments, talk to her again.

[segagirl]

Hi there CAPcadet,

 

I have no idea what a CAP squadron is....But lets assume you can just ask her out? Sometimes in a professional area, its hard to tell if someone likes you. As long as its "cool" by cadet standards, then just ask her out and see what she says!!

[John4887]

CAP - Civil Air Patrol, for junior cadets interested in the US Air Force. Interesting group and it instills leadership in youth. A great program and very educational. They pay small amounts of dues and even get the chance to learn how to fly small aircraft.

 

I agree on the other thing - yeah, be direct. Beating around the "bush" will get you no where. Go in for the attack and treat her like a lady....

[CAPcadet]

I have tried the direct approch but it ended up with me getting humiliated in front of alot of people, and for the past two years i have not heard the last of it but not to long ago i got my revenge on her.