A difficult situation that requires some outside advice

[joshmalcovic]

hi my name is josh and I'm 22 y/o. Recently I have found out that my former stepsister-19 (as of 3 years ago) has become attracted to me, I'm not exactly sure on what level and I should definitely know by now but anyway... It did come as a supprise but in a good way. I'd had sort of a crush on her on and off the whole time I've known her but nothing got serious until just recently. I'm pretty much looking for advise. I don't really feel that it's wrong but I dont know if it's worth all the sneaking around. some family on either side still talk so it would be a little uncomfortable for some to find out

 

 

This could be the wrong place to post. If so just let me know where would be better

[eyeswideopen]

I don't think this would be that big a deal amigo. If you both have feelings for each other go for it. It sounds like you guys would know each other pretty well which is always a good start. I wouldn't sneak around once you determined there's something really there.

[joshmalcovic]

The main issue for me is that I'm still trying to figure out if there is something there. And I've allready decided that until I get to that point, nobody should know about it for fear of sabotage from a few specific family members.

 

Is this too weird a situation to be in or is there something I can relate this to

[eyeswideopen]

Relate it to the movie Clueless.

Serisously.. just go with your heart.. see where it takes you. Leave everyone else out of it until you know what you want.

[JustNormal]

If you in any way share the same DNA then back off. If not, then go for it. You don't want your kids to come out looking Amish, trust me.