john822005 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 This question goes for the ladies... What you would think of if you met a virgin 24 years old guy? You will be turned off? Or this would mean something to you? Do you place a high value on this? Or do not mind it at all? Thanks! Link to comment
RayKay Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I think you will find that some women would value it, others would not care one way or the other, or others would prefer someone with experience. If they are into you, I really don't think it would be something that would attract or detract either way. Link to comment
xmrth Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I would rather the person be a virgin... because who wants used goods? Okay, people don't mind and that doesn't mean it's a bad thing, but I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin at whatever age. What you're doing with your life shows more of the quality person you are, rather than if you're a virgin or not... that's not really the experience you should be worried about having. Link to comment
Gracelove Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I think it depends on the type of person you are. If he is a good man I could care less whether he's a virgin or not. I don't place a high value on it. I do place a high value on the person however. If a man is a virgin, it doesn't mean that he's not evil, or self-centered, or crazy. I think virginity falls pretty low on the ladder behind character. But then again I may be slighty baised. I had sex with a virgin; he was crazy and abusive, he also stalked me for a year, so maybe that's why it means nothing to me. In all fairness I was a virgin too, but I was nice. Link to comment
Serendipity1607307077 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Personally, I think it's a great thing that you are still a virgin. I think it means something and it is something that I held value to (er, before I lost it.. lol..). Link to comment
second_opinion Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I would find that more attactive! I would place a high value on it because it shows allot of character. Link to comment
mystik Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I would rather the person be a virgin... because who wants used goods? Okay, people don't mind and that doesn't mean it's a bad thing, but I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin at whatever age. Non virgins are not used goods. Plenty of poeple do want these "used goods" thank you very much. Nor do non-virgins show any less character than those who are...some virgins aren't virgins by choice. It personally doesn't matter to me whether someone is a virgin or not...honestly I would be a bit surprised to find out if a guy i'm dating is still a virgin at 24 but it wouldn't change my opinion of him otherwise, and I would still continue dating him, virgin or not. Link to comment
xmrth Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Non virgins are not used goods. Plenty of poeple do want these "used goods" thank you very much. You even quoted me explaining that people don't mind. Link to comment
mystik Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 You even quoted me explaining that people don't mind. The fact remains that you called non virgins used goods. Was that really necessary? It's like saying "Non-virgins are used goods, but people don't seem to mind so I guess it's okay." Link to comment
Serendipity1607307077 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I'm sure she didn't mean it in an aggressive way... Gee, what's with all the * * * * *fighting on here at the moment? Link to comment
Hyperia81 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I think a man that is a virgin is sexy, aslong as he still meets all the characteristics that i find good in a man and suites my personal taste. Non virgins are definitly not used goods. Losing our virginity and reproducing are what our bodies were made for so i dont think that just because someone isnt a virgin it would mean that they are any less of that of a virgin. Link to comment
Prenkle Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 I don't really care. People have different reasons for staying virgin for a long time or losing their virginity at an early age. I attribute it to life's circumstances and leave it at that. Link to comment
sparkly Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 i really couldn't care less about what age a guy loses his virginity at if i'm really into his personality thats all that matters. oh yeah and he has to be older by about 15 years coz thats when they're grown up. well some of them at least. Link to comment
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