easyguy Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 Yes, the title sounds misleading, but it's not what it appears. I started talking to this girl via email yesterday (we met on a personals site). We've had a few email exchanges, and I mentioned that we ought to meet up in person and get to know each other over a light lunch/dinner. She definitely agreed. Question is-- Today is Monday. From a girl's perspective, would it be too far in advance to set a date for Friday (4-5 days)? We're both in school, by the way. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 no, not at all! in fact, i much prefer it when a guy schedules time in advance. shows that he respects me and my time enough not to expect me to be free at the last second. I think friday date is perfect. good luck!!!!! Link to comment
easyguy Posted May 30, 2006 Author Share Posted May 30, 2006 Yippie! She and I are on for Friday. Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 3, 2006 Author Share Posted June 3, 2006 So the date was fun. We hit it if off pretty well, but was slightly akward for her at the beginning because she had never seen me before, so it was kind of like a blind date for her. We talked and laughed while we ate over a light dinner at this local hot spot. For it being my first date ever, I was totally confident in everything that I was doing. We seem to have quite a bit in common. At the end, we exchanged numbers and that was that. So yeah, not as bad as I anticipated. Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 3, 2006 Share Posted June 3, 2006 Congrats! I hope it continues going well! Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 4, 2006 Author Share Posted June 4, 2006 Heya, From watching her body language and whatnot from the date, she hinted that she's inexperienced when it comes to dating/guys... which means we're in the same boat. I guess it's important to take things slowly, ya? Her birthday is in about a week, so I figured I could get her a cute little birthday present of some kind. Flowers might be pushing it, I don't know. But at the same time I don't want it to come off as a strictly friendship thing. Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 I think maybe offer to take her out to a dinner that night for her birthday (or another night if she is busy that day). nothing too fancy, but not taco bell either. A cafe where you can sit outside would be nice. Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 5, 2006 Author Share Posted June 5, 2006 Well, I called her earlier this afternoon and left a message, but she hasn't returned my call yet. Bleh. Man, if only we could get the ball rolling. Maybe I'm overthinking this. Link to comment
annie24 Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 it's only been a few hours. no worries Link to comment
Johnathan Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 don't worry, I overthink stuff like this all the time. Link to comment
easyguy Posted June 5, 2006 Author Share Posted June 5, 2006 Well, it's been more than a day now after leaving her a message and still no call back. Would it be a good idea to email her if she doesn't call back by tonight? I don't want to keep calling her. She doesn't seem like the kind of girl that would be super busy every single day either... but I may be wrong, dunno. Link to comment
Iceman26 Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 Dude, set it for Wednesday or Thursday, so if the date is a bust you haven't lost a weekend night. Link to comment
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