too intense to finish??

[some_unknown]

okay, so my girlfriend and I have been having sexd for almost 3 months now. We are both reallyl open with eachother about talking about it, telling eachother what feels good, and what we like. We have a very strong and open relationship.

 

But something was brought to my attention.

 

She is my first girlfriend that I've been sexual active with, so I'm still kind fo new to certain things, I mean all of us have a thing or two to learn.

So my girlfriend brought to my attention that she has never completely "finished me"...I always thought that she was. I mean I climax and I litterally in the end buckle you could say...but she says that it's too intense for me and I just "think" that I'm done, when I'm not. =S

 

So I'm wondering if that's the case that it's "too intense" for me...or what?

 

I'm just an inquiering mind and would like to hear some other points of views.

 

Feel free to ask questions if it'll help with responses.

 

Thanks

 

~ some_unknown

[Süsser Tod]

Only one that can know if you did or not is yourself. And from your post, I think you've actually done it, even if she is not convinced.

 

As someone said, what an orgasm Is, I can't describe, but when you have one, you won't have a doubt that was it.

[SxcLady]

You know when youve orgasmed and she doesnt. Maybe the othe girls shes been with, were more "wild" than you are when orgasming? just a thought...? But you are truly the only one that can know when you have completely climaxxed as SusserTod said.

[some_unknown]

thanks

 

That's what I've said...although she told me that I'm actually one of the more "wilder" girls she's been with. I don't know...I feel like I climax and orgasm every time, but she seems to think other wise.

 

thank you both

[Cadence308]

Sounds like she thinks that you are faking it. Are you?

 

Or does she want to keep going to give you multiple orgasms?

[some_unknown]

No, I'm not faking it and I don't tihnk that's what she means.

 

Maybe it is more along the lines of multiple orgasms

[Cadence308]

From what some women on here have posted about multiple orgasms, it sounds like for some it may be too sensitive in the clitoral region for them to endure multiples.

 

It sounds like you are getting your rocks off and enjoying it. The most important part is that you are enjoying each other. I don't understand what the problem is and it sounds like you don't either.