Lots of sex in a short period of time

[sara_0562]

Hi Everyone

I have a quick question. My boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship and only see eachother about once a month. So u can imagine how horny we both are when we see eachother. We usually do it about 4 to 6 time a night and a couple of time during the day. By the second day of this i cant really do it anymore without it hurting. Its been awhile since i was a virgin and just wondering if this is normal. Its kinda frustrating cause i want to do it but it jsut hurts way to much. Any ways to make it not hurt?

Thanks for any advice

Meg

[avman]

Well it's normal because you are creating too much friction and working those muscles too much.

 

While I know both of you are trying to make up for lost time, the only way to help things is to maybe slow down a little bit. Instead of 4-6 times that first night how about 2-3 times? You could always try additional lube I suppose but you are still going to have very tired and overworked muscles.

[bobo85]

^agreed^

 

also during long distance relationships...phone sex is your friend.

[Kitz]

Hahaha, i'm like the complete opposite with my boyfriend. I've had bad experiences in the past with guys, wouldnt even let him touch me at the start of our relationship -- then all of sudden I began to trust him and turned into this always up for it sex crazed person! LOL. I'm always the one whos like "lets do it again!" and hes like "please... i need 15 minutes to recharge!!" hahaha.

 

I get the same problem as you though -- Even though i'm incredibly turned on, I have a problem with getting wet and I get sorta sore afterwards. I dont really have advice -- just letting you know you're not alone.

 

Though I have to say, 6 times a night.... The next day do you guys walk around with huge silly grins on your faces? hahaha.

[sara_0562]

lol, well he walks around with a silly grin and im the one who has trouble walking normal.

[puppy]

hi

 

hithere123, I think is fun how you described you were falling asleep while "doing it".

 

Glad you left him.

 

Woof Woof

[darkblue]

You could try more lubrication.

Alternatively: Oral or manual - whatever floats your boat.

[goddess23]

hey sorry i know this is totally off topic, well not totally but yeah. um, you girls mentioned how you have trouble getting wet sometimes...im 18 and im a virgin however i find myself quite wet all for most of the day even though im not turned on at all. and if i am turned on then its very wet. im wondering if theres anything i could do for this?