Blinking101 Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 Last night my girlfriend and I were making out and I fingered her but I never fingered a virgin before and she has never been fingered or has done it her self. I got a simple question it is suppose to be extremely tight? Such as I could only get one finger in their. Thank You, Blink Link to comment
self_cutter_101 Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 Well if shes a virgin and small than yea. Nothing has gone in her yet (besides your finger) so it will be tight the first couple times. ~Danielle Link to comment
Blinking101 Posted March 26, 2006 Author Share Posted March 26, 2006 Ok Thank you Danielle I was just curious thats what I thought the reason was too. Is their any positions she can lay that would not hurt her or things she should do like open her legs etc? Link to comment
self_cutter_101 Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 Probably just open her legs more, but not were they break off, and just try and relax. ~Danielle Link to comment
Blinking101 Posted March 26, 2006 Author Share Posted March 26, 2006 Alright thanks again. And great advice Link to comment
self_cutter_101 Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 Your Welcome ~Danielle Link to comment
Lansing Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 She is probably tense also since it is her first time experiencing it. She probably isn't able to relax her muscles....... just take your time and don't force anything... Link to comment
Blinking101 Posted March 26, 2006 Author Share Posted March 26, 2006 What would be force? Like give a example please. Would it be like put 2 fingers instead of one? Link to comment
_Tiki_ Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 I think Lansing means don't shove your fingers up there forcefully. Make sure shes wet before you put your fingers inside so it wont hurt her as much. Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted March 26, 2006 Share Posted March 26, 2006 I find opening legs up all the way it actually stretches everything closed and makes it tighter. A little open is good, but she doesn't have to do the splits. Make sure she is comfortable with what you're doing. She needs to be relaxed. Talk about it. Being slippery helps tremendously too. If she's not wet enough, it could cause her pain and could cause it to be a bit tighter. Do more foreplay, and if that's still not enough, lube is your friend. Link to comment
Ross0 Posted March 27, 2006 Share Posted March 27, 2006 Why would she have never done it herself before though? Does it mean she doesn't have a sex drive? Link to comment
snowgirl Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 You don't have to insert anything to experience sexual pleasure. I don't know the statistics, but I would venture to guess that a very large percentage of women masturbate externally only. (by clitoral stimulation). Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 agree w/ last poster Link to comment
BurningInside Posted March 31, 2006 Share Posted March 31, 2006 My GF stimulates herself by G-spot stimulation I believe. Anyway, before you insert your finger, provide gentle clitirol stimulation to help her relax and get her juices flowing. Worked for me. Link to comment
Blinking101 Posted March 31, 2006 Author Share Posted March 31, 2006 Were is a G-Spot exactly located at and what might it feel like for me to find on my girl friend? Link to comment
BurningInside Posted March 31, 2006 Share Posted March 31, 2006 Were is a G-Spot exactly located at and what might it feel like for me to find on my girl friend? I don't know about external links but link removed Link to comment
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