Shy guy or not interested how to tell for sure?

[ladeedah]

Calling all guys!!! Is there any sure fire way to test a guy to see if he acts a certain way around a girl b/c he is shy or not interested? How can you tell if avoiding eye contact or avoiding the girl altogther or being nervous and uncomfortable around a girl is b/c he is shy or just not interested? TIA!!!!! You guys are the best!

[friscodj]

Talk to him about it...it's the only way to know for sure...

[ladeedah]

could you give me at least a hint how i would know? I don't want to risk making a fool of myself if he is not into me!

[easyguy]

Attraction is complicated, ladeedah. There isn't a "sure fire" way to figure out if someone is into you. Use your own judgement and test the waters. Talk to him, see how he acts. You won't make a fool of yourself. If he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. Not doing anything about it yourself is probably going to make him more uncomfortable around you, because the more time that goes by without making any moves, the harder it gets to be comfortable around that person, especially if that person is shy.

[hoping]

honestly...if a guy is shy...show a little affection to him...show him that u look at him even if there was a crowd....if he was just shy he will pick up the hint and have a good chance of maybe acting on it....but if he was just not interested...he would ignore them....obviously hold urself back from throwin urself on him...cuz u dont want to get hurt

[ultraviolet]

Smile and be friendly. If he likes you but he's shy, he'll eventually warm up to your advances. If he looks annoyed and reacts coldly, time to move on.