Sex Issue

[khujo56]

Hi Guys

 

I've just been dating this girl for about 2 months now and we have had sex but i have a problem where i cannot cum. now it's not that i'm not aroused or attracted to her. i'm just having a hard time cumming. is this a natural thing.

[mystik]

you have problems when you're with her? or can you not cum in general?

[khujo56]

sorry it's when i'm with her, it's hard for me to cum

[ShySoul]

It's not uncommon. Sex can be a daunting thing and it is easy to be distracted or not in the moment or putting too much pressure on yourself. You aren't alone in having this problem, so don't feel embarrassed or anything like that.

 

What you want is to be able to focus entirely on what you are experiencing at the time. Odds are you are putting pressure on yourself to finish and that is making it more difficult for you. You need to be able to totally relax and just savor what is going on, getting lost in the moment and completely letting go. Focus on how good it feels, the pleasure you are getting. Have more foreplay until you you aren't thinking and are just doing. This should help make it easier for you.

[ocrob]

Can you not cum with any type of sexual contact? I suggest you have her give you a hand job or do it yourself just to get over the hump. At least you are not doing it after a minute and I am sure you will get to the right point. Just have fun and try to please her.