How can i tell if my ex misses me?

[wakkarocka]

Ok my g/f recenly ended things with me over petty things that would happen over the internet (moved 20 mins from where i use to so im 20 mins from her now so we comunicate alot over aim) She was refusing to want to fix things. The other night we had a falling out where things were said by both parties that neither of us meant. Last night she had randomly contacted me wanting to know if ide like to see her new hair color. I said sure why not, then later that evening she contacted me again saying "i know you prolly dont like me anymore and your prolly busy with Lauren (my friend of the oposite sex) but ide really like to maybe play a card game or somthing with you...but thats ok if you dont want to i declined politly saying maybe some other time and that seemed to bother her. We use to play card games and such all the time late at night together and had a blast ( this wasnt a online relationship to clear any confusion up) Im not sure what to think, i mean she ended it with me so why would she even bother talking to me? Now she seems to have a new interest or so i assume based on away messages she puts up that read "J call me when you get home 111-1111 or 111-1111 "ur babydoll" " mind you she just ended things with me last sat and its fri and she has put stuff up like that sesne sunday. Im just confused i dont know if she misses me and or is wanting to make me jealous. Ide get back with her in a heartbeat because she means sooooooooooooo much to me even if that to some may seem like a mistake but alot of people end up getting back together. So yea its been a week and thats my story, any help or advise would be great, thanks a bunch!