Cuppedia Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Hello, I need help figuring this out. How do you know when the relationship you had was a rebound?, What changes that makes you realize you were rebounding?, Is there any "wake up" sign that makes you see it?, any feeling that only rebounds give?. Thanks. Link to comment
RayKay Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 This is a tough one, because some relationships end just because they were not meant to be, not just because you were rebounding. Some signs might be though...you are still thinking of ex, and making comparisons of new person/relationship to your ex/past relationship, you are still dealing with the emotional traumas of the breakup, carrying forth the hurt from that to the present, punishing your present partner for things your ex did (for example, if your ex dumped you after she started partying and going out with friends, and you now tell new partner she cannot go out), when you realize you were more in love with the idea of moving on and finding someone new to replace your loneliness, then actually being in love and fully ready to love. A good "wake up call" though is if you think you are rebounding, or questioning if you are...you probably are. 1 Link to comment
Cuppedia Posted January 25, 2006 Author Share Posted January 25, 2006 Wow!, that was a very good answer, thanks a lot!. Link to comment
RayKay Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Wow!, that was a very good answer, thanks a lot!. You are welcome, and anytime Link to comment
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